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Male Submissive, 38, los angeles, California
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Male Switch, 56, las vegas, Nevada
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Female Submissive, 32, Hamilton
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About Whollydevoted
I am new to BDSM but have done enough experimenting to know that I am 100% submissive, at least in this context. I could never see myself tying another up or wielding a whip. I enjoy pain but can not bear to inflict it on others.
In day to day life, I am not very submissive. Maybe that makes me a switch? I don't know. I am a full time college student, recently going through a divorce, and have two small children. I am working towards becoming a midwife and have sky high aspirations. I enjoy dabbling in the political scene in the state, so discretion is important.
What I do in my day to day life requires that I be willing to take charge and deal well in high power situations. So, I enjoy being placed in a position of total powerlessness to counter what I must do to achieve my goals.
I am not looking for someone to have a few casual encounters with. I am looking for someone who can explore the dark corners of my mind and not back down in fear. I seek someone with whom I can be totally transparent. It is only after my mind has been unlocked that my body can be completely submitted. |
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I know submission, not in the style most often thought of here, but in a fuller, more vanilla sense. My husband was appalled by the idea of handcuffs and spankings, but he demanded obedience. And I provided it as best I could. But, there is only emptiness to be found in obeying someone who can never be pleased...who only ever wants more. And who does not show love in return. A man must be worthy of being submitted to for it to work.
Does such a person exist? One who loves so much as to make anything but obedience seem inconceivable? A man who values his woman for more than what she can do for him or his image? A man who can tame not with cruelty and cultivation of fear, but one who elicits obedience with gentleness and building of trust and respect.
I want to believe such a person exists...but I am beginning to wonder. |
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