WholeSubMiss

I am independent, opinionated, financially secure, confident, sexually expressive, adventurous, and am often seen dancing until 4 AM. Do I belong here?

I am extroverted and shy, passive OR aggressive, quiet and boisterous, indecisive and spontaneous, thoughtful and selfish. I screw up all the time and never admit I am wrong. I waste time efficiently and save money compulsively. Do I have to decide?

I do not play games for I cannot keep score. I do not manipulate for it challenges the limits of my attention span.

I AM a WOMAN. There are all sides to me. My brain, my sexuality, and my spirit are all alive and well.

I AM a SUBMISSIVE. There are all sides to my submission. My heart and my body are available to the one who will compliment them with his own.
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In my head:

There is no victory in conquering the weak.

The perfect submissive craves to please and grow in a variety of ways. She is a strong person with her own opinions and goals. She accepts guidance and challenge from her dominant. Giving her best every day, she makes her dominant proud; scene-room, bedroom, boardroom. She can live just as well on her own but desires the love, protection, and structure that her dominant provides. Her life is full and BDSM is only part of her whole.

The perfect dominant does not confuse abuse for discipline, isolation for control, or meanness for strength. He strives to give his submissive wings so that she will always fly back to him. He is communicative and exacting and in full control of himself. He demonstrates his appreciation for a job well done with as much severity as he does his disappointment in failure. His life is full and BDSM is only part of HIS whole.