Diary 4: i took Queen Yolanda to a nice lunch and gave Her a gift to help pay some bills. She said She wanted to fuck me in a park so we went to a park and She fucked me with a strapon behind some trees. 

Diary 5: Queen DeeAnn said She wanted to beat my white ass so i got on my hands and knees and She beat me with a thick wooden paddle. The tears were streaming down my cheeks but Her pussy was wet from beating me and i was glad to be used and abused for Her pleasure.

Diary 6: i met Queen Jessica in Crystal City and took Her to lunch and gave her a gift which pleased Her. We held hands and had a nice walk and She spanked me in an elevator. Then She took me to her van and fucked me in the back of the van with a strapon. 

Diary 7: i invited Queen Sheila to dinner and then She took me to Her home and i did housework. After i finished the chores, i gave Her a foot massage and kissed Her thighs and hips while She chatted on the phone with Her boyfriend who was out of town. 

Diary 8: i will pamper, adore, and worship Black Women. i will do all your household chores. A Black Woman should never do any housework. i will adore You, Rub your feet at night, Give you pedicures, Rub your back. When in public, i will treat you like a Lady at all times. Open doors for you, stand when you enter a room, and be quick to tell everyone, anyone how special you are. Your needs, wants and desires are more important than my own. The sheer joy of putting you first is my reward.Sex should be when, where and how you says and strictly for your pleasure. i will give you oral sex at anytime and anyplace. i submit to your will, i obey you, i work for and serve you and devote myself to you with all my heart and soul.When you punish and discipline me, i comply, i obey and i take it like a man.

Diary 9: I asked Queen Yolanda to please train me how to worship Her feet, ass and pussy properly and She said She will train me to make all of Her desires come true. 

Diary 10: I believe in white male servitude to Black Women as an act of love and as a form of reparations. 

Diary 11: Queen Aisha took me with Her to a party and led me around on a leash and introduced me as Her bitch. During the party i kissed Her feet and served Her drinks. edit delete

OBEAH simply put is black domination / white humiliation. A form of erotic humiliation based upon race play consisting of very dark sadistic sexual overtones. OBEAH built on the ideals of Black Supremacy, and the racial degradation of white submissives even the torture of white slaves/submissives, at the hands of their Black Superior. OBEAH humiliation in most cases is either very sexual  or very sadistic in nature, sometimes both. For example in OBEAH; many white male submissives are objectified, emasculated, tortured and even feminized.  Their sexual self identity is usually altered to suite the whims of his Black Superior.  Their physical appearance changed to accommodate his masters idea of beauty.  This is all consensual play between adults. The slave is not taken or held by force, yet his submission given freely to his Black Superior. The slave agreeing to be in indentured servitude to his Black Master.  I cant think of a healthier way for white slaves who have guilt, and Black Superiors that possess anger. Engaging in this type of play can be therapeutic and mutually beneficial.

Is a whip really necessary? To said question, our whole FLR Community would respond with a resounding, “To each, Her own.” Meaning, what they do in their relationship is up to each individual couple. Of course it is. But I would argue that in a FLR a whip is necessary. If you have a FLR, get a whip. In a FLR, it’s important to have a whip. You need a whip. Get on board with a whip. Get yourself a nice whip.

Whipping is, by any measure, a severe statement. Whips and whipping mean, you mean business! If there was a FLR church in our community (and there’s not), I’m sure one Sunday out of the year would be called “Whip Sunday;” when everybody brings their whip to church and we all lay them on the altar. There would be some hymns about whips, a rousing sermon about the symbolic value of whipping, some testimonials (“I was lost, got whipped, and now I’m found!”), and then the Blessing of the Whips. The Women would make a circle around the altar standing, their slaves inside the circle kneeling, and prayers would be offered up that all of us would be worthy of our end of the whip: The Mistress on the handle end, and Her slave on the receiving end. And may the blessings abound!

For of all possible FLR symbols, our most powerful symbol is the whip. Having a whip says you are serious. Put it at the bottom of your underwear drawer and never get it out, but let it be known that you will use it if you have to. The whip is the ultimate tool of domination. There is just something about having a whip.

I adore and worship Black Women and i want to prove my devotion by taking you to nice restaurants, giving you gift$$$ and i especially enjoy holding your hand and walking in the mall so that everyone can see that i belong to a Black Woman. I am not seeking any kind of sexual relationship but i will gladly please you orally if that will please you. I am a mature, athletic white male and own 2 homes and a sailboat. I enjoy sailing, going on cruises and taking weekend trips to see Broadway plays. 

Your property: As a whiteboi and as property of a Black Woman, i try to keep myself in top shape mentally and physically because a Black Woman deserves to own the best whitebois.

A woman's guide to benefits for the woman in a Female Led Relationship

The benefits for women in FLR

     Women and men will get benefits from a female led relationship. They may either share benefits or have specific benefits for the women or the man. Of course the chief benefit is growing a relation towards your ideals and working together to get there.

"If you look at FLR it looks like the safest relationship a woman can have. She makes the rules, she sets the boundaries, she has final say and he both loves her and supports her in her role. In any other relationship women do not enjoy that kind of freedom or safety. This is a functional model for any woman who wants more control and less strife. There should be zero downside to female led relationships when entered into with open eyes and a whole heart between two people who love each other." -- A BBS entry from Asserting leadership

• As much control over your relationship, him and your life together as you want.
• Being able to be bitchy, angry and condescending without conflict.
• Build a formal relationship agreement.
• Expanding your leadership as you please.
• Expanding your sex life as you please.
• Get him to do as much of the housework as you like.
• Greater respect from your mate.
• Growing confidence as a leader.
• Having a more confident man who knows the drill.
• Helping him to improve his health and well being.
• Helping him to stop bad habits.
• Indulging in your kinks and his as you choose.
• More intimacy as desired.
• Nurturing as much or as little as you want.
• Pampering from your man and receiving as much as you want.
• Promoting togetherness, connection and relationship longevity.
• Work towards goals together.

The benefits for men in FLR

• Indulge your fantasies.
• Surrender to female authority.
• Get closer to your mate by serving her body.
• Remain confident by knowing the rules and consequences.
• Knowing her expectations.
• Express your willingness to submit.
• Learning new things.
• Stop bad habits.
• Encourage your mate as a successful leader.
• Help normalize female led relationships.
• Learn greater intimacy, connection and vulnerability.
• Promote togetherness, connection and relationship longevity.
• Work towards goals together.