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	About whipncreme Not seeking any "One" in particular, yet I am open to new people, new experiences. There should be a potential for friendship. I enjoy most roles and have no rigid fetishes. My hard limits would be animals and kids. Contacts must be safe, sane, and consensual. Mutual respect is essential.

"Do ye no harm" - Hippocratic oath, Wiccan wisdom, spiritual principle. Simple, but not easy. Harm happens, a misunderstanding, the wrong word used at the wrong time, even something not spoken, when a word is needed, maybe a pat on the back. I'm sometimes blind to the harm I have done to others, am prejudiced about how "well" I am doing spiritually, then reality sets in, usually in the form of being told how I affected someone. I look at that, it has to be at least partially true, and make amends for what I can own. And I do reality checks with true friends and mentors, so I am realistic in taking inventory. If you feel wronged, tell me, let me know if I can undo the damage.

My Card - Roger S.: recovering alcoholic, student in spiritual kindergarten. Listener, giver, incest survivor. Resource person, broker of the spirit. Taoist, bicycle rider, camper, lover of all things pure and natural.
(Don't see sub or dom on there - such things as roles in a relationship are negotiated and defined by the syncronicity of the partners)

Hello friends. I have been in a painful growth period and am looking deep within to discover the truths. At this point I see that I am a sub, and live to serve. My journey continues, I hope you are doing well on yours.

I am most grateful to have received the suggestion that my picture is perhaps unnecessary and even potentially damaging given my profession and current surroundings. I will gladly exchange pictures with those who are interested. I am also grateful for the many contacts I have made, particularly for those which are blossoming into friendships.

A freebie for storm lovers -

Pain is unavoidable, misery is optional.

Or as Jung put it: Neurosis is the avoidance of normal suffering.

A Basic Text says; We are not a glum lot. We absolutely insist on enjoying life. We know that God (as we understand Him/Her) wants us to be happy, joyous and free.

Tao for the day

Don't let the good become the enemy of the best.

TAO for the Day: Hug your demons, or they'll bite you on the ass!

Check out open-mind.org for oodles of resources.

Tao for the Day: The wise Master knows others; The Enlightened Master knows Himself.

Ponderings: How many Masters can we serve?
How can we be loyal to each? How many slaves have a "spare tire" Dom on the hook just in case the current Master doesn't work out? I suppose having a "Plan B" is prudent, but where is the trust, the commitment?

Random thoughts and general BS:
How is it that we can find what we are seeking, and then try to throw it all away? Fear of success stems from certainty of failure.

Seekers of the sublime embrace honesty, and their integrity is a beacon to those of us who flounder in the mud of mere desire.

To me the term "lifestyle' is empty if it doesn't include principles and values. We are selfish or unselfish, giving or taking, honest or dishonest in varying shades and degrees. I seek only progress. Sometimes I trudge, and sometimes I dance. Take what you want, and leave the rest behind. Join with me, if you will, and we will grow together.

Experience, Strength, and Hope (but nothing about NASCAR)

Even the lowliliest slave deserves basic respect, as does even the cruelest Dom.

Without self-respect the spirit withers and dries up.

Too many of us were deeply wounded as children and now are repeating the trauma, seeking a sense of control over it.

We are all survivors, the challenge is to become a thriver.

If you have read this far you may wish to know more. On Feb. 14 I celebrated 8 years without a drink or drug.

I once had 10 years sobriety but lost it when I felt deep in my soul that no one, not even God, cared about me.

Many losses and a few hospitalizations later I surrendered.

My gift to you is to say I've been there, I understand, I care.

As is said by the M.D.s and the Wiccans-
Above all alse, do ye no harm.

The master has, with some regret, let go of a long-term sub who wanted more, more, and became possessive and demanding of her Master. The sub is free, and will learn to accept this state of affairs and will thrive. Then, choices can be made without fear. As the Dalai Lama said, a successful LTR requires that there is more love than there is need. As for me, I seem not to be the vanilla LTR white-picket fence person (oh, you've guessed that by now, haven't you!). So, let's jouney together and see where this takes us!

A good Dom is hard to find. A hard-core Dom is good to find. The kitten continues to play with the forbidden toy, uncertain, tentative. It was so wonderful to follow the directions of a stranger into realms of excitement and pleasure that were undreamed of. This Dom/Domme sees playmates seeking permisssion, guidance, direction, to fulfill fantasies and feel free even when bound and gagged. The freedom is the joy of no limits, of meeting your fears and conquering them, with a trusted hand to guide you, push you, reward you, honor you. Your jouney is sacred, the Master is priviliged to play a small part in the story you are living.

The ebb and flow of contacts is exhilarating, and even those who turn away may peek, still drawn by the forbidden. Sissy boys in motel rooms follow directions and discover guilty pleasures, go shopping and are eager for the next chance to please their Master. Bored and ignored housewives reach the peak of their sexuality, yearning now for sensuality, surrender, devotion. Businessmen crave punishment, cleansing, and powerlessness. Yet trust is tenuous, new pleasures seem so risky. There is no "bad', no "good" there is only self-nurturing and self-harm. When care for self and others is paramount, no harm is done. Or, as they say, Follow Your Bliss!

An apology is tendered if unspoken boundaries are crossed and one becomes offended. A student has been lost, perhaps conflicted feelings were intolerable, perhaps the naughty secret became known. But variety is the spice of life, and our journeys require that we step out of our comfort zones. I strive to remain teachable, and the teacher is you. For that, I am grateful.

There seem to be some boys in the Potomac Highlands that need taming and I may need some help with this. Perhaps a room will be reserved at the South Branch Inn for training purposes! But my heart yearns for a puppygirl to tease and titillate, tie and torture. A true slave, loyal and obedient, intelligent and creative, witty and entertaining. One who knows the ecstacy of immobilization, cavities filled with buzzing toys, wax dripping and ice cubes melting, the lash used sparingly for full effect. Pain and powerlessness fade into rapture, and the slightest touch is like a branding iron, searing the skin, exciting every nerve ending to the fullest. No thought, no feeling other than floating with the waves of fire and water.

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