Whiphawk


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	About Whiphawk I am in search of a submissive woman. Let me be clear on that: woman. I am not looking for a doormat, nor someone who is stupid. Rather, I am looking for an intelligent, well spoken, submissive woman who knows that she gains her greatest pleasure and satisfaction by submitting to the will of another.

The sexiest part of a woman lies between the ears. Below that are the parts that are fun to play with. Its very important not to get that confused.

A slave is a precious, valuable and very rare thing. Claiming one is worth a certain amount of sacrifice because the rewards of ownership are great. That she is valuable and precious does not mean that she should be coddled. She is a possession and, however rare, the possession must never dictate the rules nor conditions of its ownership.

Trust. Once lost it is never easy to regain. The person seeking to repair the break must go to great lengths over a long period in order to restore what was once freely given. This is as true of submissives as it is of Dominants. Neither has a monopoly on the need to trust.

Why on earth are so many people putting up fake pictures or using erotic art as their sole identification? What's the point of being other than who you are?

Yes, there is no doubt that I have a fondness for redhead submissives.

The single concept most often lost on those claiming to be Dominants is one far too many submissives are familiar with. These dim-doms believe that a submissive woman is a slut and whore who, to paraphrase Roger Taney, has no rights a Dominant is bound to respect. Nothing could be further from the truth. A submissive is both a woman who has the need to serve and a human being deserving of respect. Only by acknowledging both can a Dominant ever hope to find and nurture the potential of a submissive. Unlike the fantasies so many of us enjoy reading from time to time, there is more to a D/s relationship than sex and games of power. Two individuals have come together in a human relationship. Forget that and an aspiring dominant may as well forget any claims to being a Master. A Master's role is not just to dominant a submissive. It is to nurture and protect any submissive accepted into service. To a lesser degree, it also means to offer direction to any new sub who asks for it. Directing a person to an informative website or book takes about 30 seconds. Allowing that new sub to be ruined by a wannabe dominant interested only in sex takes no time at all, but the consequences last a very long time. If you cannot nurture, don't complain that so many subs have become ruined, jaded or selfish. Or fake.

Honesty is extremely difficult to come by here. So many seem to feel that a lie told across the wires is just business as usual. I'm very tired of it.

There comes a moment of clarity when all the bs becomes clear. No matter how many subs point out the Dominants who are players on this site, the number of subs out for a quick fantasy fix easily equals or exceeds them. I am very tired of all the games here.

Just to make one thing very clear - I am not interested in a brat or a "do me" sub. I'm looking for a woman who truly is submissive, not one playing at it.

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