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About WheneversClever
Hello and welcome.
I'm a Dom/Master looking for a sub or slave. Alternatively, friendships and even random conversations are also greeted warmly. While I may be new to this site, the same cannot be said for the lifestyle. I have a direction in life. I know where I am and where I ultimately want to be. I also have the dedication and discipline to see that journey to completion. There are spots for acquaintances and friends trekking with me, however there is a special place for the sub or slave that is the complimentary yang to my yin.
I find it commonplace that profiles often lead by showing off their kinks, sexual prowess, or pictures boasting large amounts of skin. I make no apologies for leaving those things out of my profile intentionally. Those things for me come with time and trust. I prefer to make an acquaintance by extending a hand and entreating someone to unleash their mind to engage in an electrified tango of coalescing intellects propelling our personalities to vibrantly spring to life. I'm well aware of the copious amounts of time required for such a dance to take place, yet I'm reminded that all things in life worth having are also worth waiting for. Patience is, after all, a virtue.
I believe the body is naught but an echo of the mind. I know from first hand experience that the body will reflect the state of one's mind. If the mind is lazy and lethargic, the body will look the same. Should the mind be a well oiled machine however, then that's what the body will outwardly project. I'm a believer in living a fit and healthy lifestyle. I exercise daily, cook my own meals, and haven't touched fast food or soda in nearly a decade. I keep my body in excellent condition not only for myself, but also because I cannot expect my sub to follow my lead on something I don't personally practice.
In my opinion, both Domination and submission are states of mind; ways of life, if you will. It's not something that can be turned on or off at the flick of a switch. It's lived twenty four hours a day all year round. It may only be acted upon or practiced in small periods or even take on a sporadic and episodic nature, yet the state of mind persists. A Dom's job is to learn his sub's feelings intimately. It's to understand her disposition so completely that should he so desire, he may forcibly yet gracefully dislodge her from her comfort zone with no more than a glance.
My style as a Dom varies a bit from sub to sub, though the core principles remain constant. My philosophy as a Dom is based entirely around listening. Allow me to elaborate. If we were to go to the movies, I would be more inclined to ask how you were feeling rather than asking what movie you wished to see. I would ask this because expressing how you feel is not something that requires a choice and therefore cannot be "right or wrong". It's simply stating a fact that cannot be argued, judged, or otherwise devalued. It is then my responsibility and very much an honor, as a Dom, to make a decision that is complimentary to how we both feel at that moment and make an appropriate selection.
I feel it is also important to clarify a few key points. It's my experience that most subs out there are up front in saying that they will not show their submissive side to just anyone and they are absolutely correct on all counts. It takes time and is something that's earned through communication and a nurtured intimacy built on trust, honesty, integrity, caring, and so much more. The part that gets lost on many people is that Domination, and eventually a Collar, must be treated in EXACTLY the same fashion. I will be nothing less than courteous, respectful, and honest now matter how long a relationship lasts or what form said relationship takes. I have the resolve to corral my Dominant nature until such time as you've earned the right to be my sub. My Collar is earned, not simply given away.
The mark of a true Dom is the energy and effort he puts into thinking about the ways any given action or instruction will affect his sub. Anything he gives his sub takes incredible amounts of time to plan out for her. From the sub's perspective it may seem like just an exercise given on a whim, but the reality is far from it. Forgetting or ignoring direction from a Dom is no different and feels much the same as when a sub has finished giving her all to her Dom, body, mind, and heart and the Dom walks away from that with no after care, leaving nothing but a disheveled mess and echos of degrading names in his wake.
Dominance is something you exude, much like an aura. It's not something you can see or hear, rather something you can simply feel, even when the Dom is practicing good manners and using respectful or even caring language. Here are a few things you can always expect from me:
1 - I will always treat you with respect
2 - I will be cordial until I've earned the privilege to be other, shall we say, "fun" things with you.
3 - You will always get thoughtful and thorough responses, never "one liners".
4 - Sexual things will be waited on until such time as it's appropriate, determined by both of our comfort levels.
5 - After care is NOT an option in my book. It takes different forms with different subs, however the necessity always remains the same.
6 - My bedroom Dominance will surpass my respectful and cordial side only when your submissive side shows itself. At which time, we will have earned each others respect and admiration to a point where it will work.
A sub is an extension of her Dom and a Dom is a reflection of his sub. They are a yin and yang pair and therefore a sub putting effort into herself is by definition putting effort into her Dom. Dedication, discipline, effort, drive, integrity, honesty, loyalty, etc. are all things that both parties need to be successful in any relationship, D/s or otherwise. Above all remember this - I will never put in less than 100% into myself, my sub, or my family. I expect the same from my sub.
I look forward to talking with you.
**On a side note, hard limits are just that, hard limits. However, everything else is something I either enjoy or am open minded about. This includes the BDSM sections that I've intentionally refrained from listing for the moment, save hard limits. The "Loves" area I'm using as a "highlight" section for the moment. If you don't see what you're looking for in the hard limit section, be assured that it's still very much on the table in my book.
Message me - Wheneversclever
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I lay here on my patch of rock hard floor, no sounds to drown out my own slow rhythmic breathing. My skin aches from the numbingly cold tiles of specially carved rock beneath me, just to burn again while I squirm for relieve as the abrasive tiles grind with malicious savagery against my abused nipples and stomach. Only the dim light struggling to force its way under the door paints the picture of where I've spent my week long captivity. Though the bars of my prison are not quite tall enough to permit me to roll over, I am none the less cuffed by hands and feet to each corner of my fortified confinement. I desperately desire nothing more than to ready myself perfectly to please my Master upon his arrival, however I am forced to simply lie here and wait.
The eternal clock of my ever constant heartbeat ticks the time away until my beloved Master's walks through the door to pluck me from the clutches of my unending anguish. My thoughts are besieged of my transgressions that left my Master little choice save to lock me in this mattress sized cage of despair. The seriousness of my insubordination weighs heavily on my mind. It agonizes my soul to realize that I've let my Master down, that I've failed in my duty to Him. It's because of my utter devotion to Him that I've resolved to see this punishment through and never let my rebellious side get the better of me again. Click!
My once unwavering heartbeat comes to an abrupt halt from pure shock as my Master bursts through the door and light floods the room with the flick of His wrist. Just before my heart takes up it's rhythmic thumping once more, my body involuntarily shivers with sheer joy and excitement at the anticipation of our reunion. My moment to once again prove my undying devotion to Him is finally at hand. The elation is overwhelming, but it does not shield me from what I see next. Trailing so slightly behind Sir, with her hand gently held in His, is an insanely beautiful woman. While I'm well aware that this plaything Sir has procured is nothing more than an evening muse, simple jealousy and anger do not begin to describe the tempest of feelings that begin to storm inside me. I do not yet know what to make of this new devilry, but angst overtakes me as wisps of incomplete thought begin to flow in a chaotic fury around my head. Each one laced possibilities of what lie ahead.
My Master walks in front of my cage and sits on top of it. Only His feet remain in my view while he speaks. "I know that you are repentant over your actions," He begins. "I need not remove your ball gag to know that you are apprehensive over the manner in which I have chosen to greet you". I fruitlessly try to hide the vulnerability on my face from the muse's gaze as I feel my left hand released from its restraint. "I'm providing you a choice, my pet," He continues while rummaging through his pocket. "With your newly freed hand, you may choose one of the two keys I'm about to present before you. I have the key to your cage and restraints. I also have key to your chastity belt. If you grab the key to your belt, then you may relieve your pent up physical needs while you watch my friend and I enjoy each others company. Should you get the key to your cage and restraint though, you will come out and you will be the source of pleasure for the evening. In that case, the chastity belt stays on. Whichever of the two keys in front of you that you choose, I will instantly retract the other. You have 10 seconds from when the keys hit the floor to make your choice or I retract them both and restrain your free hand again". As the words register to me, I see two keys attached to two separate chains drop to the floor a few feet apart within my reach. Still unable to utter a sound I feel my mind suddenly turn to black.
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Thank you for reading my story. The real issue at hand is for you to tell me which key you would choose. Just message me - Wheneversclever
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