Hi...

I'm James. I moved to London a few months ago having left the forces. I'm an intelligent and eloquent guy, 28 years old with a love of all things kinky. Hobbies and interests include Martial Arts, swimming, gliding, music, art - in fact anything that allows adrenaline or creativity is good with me.

I mainly play at the gate club in NW London and have met lots of great people there...I'm looking for an outgoing kinky girl (24-32 and slim) who is exciting and fun to be with for a relationship. I'm a watersports/scat/messy sex fetishist as well as an SMer - YES, those are my REAL kinks - don't want anybody getting any nasty shocks when they find that out! LoL! I am a switch in terms of these fetishes and as it says at the bottom finding someone into them would be great but I would be happy with a kinky SM based relationship...

In terms of SM; I'm a switch - but I'm a rubbish sub (and may need training ;) ) and mostly enjoy domming. Its also worth saying that I enjoy SM as part of a full sex life and normal relationship - I don't want a doormat, I want an equal in life and a genius in bed!

I'm up for meeting people at various events for fun and introductions - I'm a picky MF and I don't jump into bed with the first person to share my fetishes! I am open to trying most things (ie needle play which I never expected to like but found to be really cool!) and secretly enjoy nothing more than making peoples fantasies come true and then being told how great I am! :)

NB: I don't expect to find many people who share my fetishes - I'm more looking to have an enjoyable and kinky relationship!