If you're passionate about being honest, how do you write one of these and still make yourself sound interesting?... I'm an almost middle-aged guy, in pretty good shape, average good looking, smarter than the average bear, higher-educated. Looking for someone who's capable of having fun, either someone young who wants a safe, gentle man to show her the ropes, or someone closer to my age who's looking for something more. Not interested in just screwing around: If there's no talk, no connection, there's nothing. Photos available for swap.