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westernbutterfly

Male Submissive, 64
Male Submissive, 40, Western, New York
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Male Submissive, 59, pittsburgh area, Pennsylvania
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About westernbutterfly

Hi,

turning 40 soon, and it's been a great adventure, but still looking for Him .... and i'm also looking for other submissive, and maybe switch females, to help me serve Him. There are so many things that i want to try .... i think it will require two of us. *smiles*

Who is He?

I am looking for someone real. He doesn't need to be perfect--I certainly am not, but he does need to want more than casual sex. He does have to be available, meaning not married, and he does have to have his life together (job, income, place to live, mode of transportation, all that basic survival stuff.)

Oh, and yes, he has to be dominant.

I am a strong, independent, successful female who has done well for herself thus far. But I am new to the lifestyle -- having only come out of the closet two years ago. I have had a very interesting and exciting journey these past two years, but there is so much more that I want to do. And I'm looking for a partner, who complements me and supplements me, who can lead me further into this adventure.

I am a natural born #2 person--I support a visionary leader very well, and this has paid off in my career. But unfortunately, I have often found myself in the #1 role in my relationships. I don't want to be there anymore. I want to be the #2 to a man who is accomplished and successful, but feels that he can be a stronger, better person by having me in his life ... however that is defined.

I want someone with whom I can connect on a very primal level, but with whom I can also have deep intellectual conversations (ok, not horribly deep). I want to get beat and fucked on Saturday night and spend a lazy Sunday at the beach or at the movies.

I don't know if this is a lot to ask ... maybe I am looking for perfection. I guess I shall see. I will respond to all emails, so if you are even remotely interested, send me a note.

Cheers.

Update on the corset:  It will be on the auction block at Carnal Carnival at Threshold on July 11 (I think).  It's only been worn once, so, it's practically new.  *smiles*  Proceeds, if any, will support Threshold. 

Hi, I have a corset that I would really like to sell, purchased from Hilary's Vanity last year.  However, it has only been worn once, and it hasn't been played in.  It was purchased with a tulle type skirt, and the pair cost $400 or so.  However, I just want to get rid of it, so $100??  Anyone interested, please drop me a note.  I am in LA and am a size 10/12 on top.
Hi, I will be attending the Northwest Leather Conference this weekend in San Jose and hope to play Saturday night at Edges.  Anyone on here going?
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