I am amazed at the numbers of people who are searching for a bdsm relationship and yet, their own lives are a mess!

If your not in control of your own life...you can't be in control of mine!

I maybe kind hearted..but I'm nobody's fool :)

I am strong willed, confident in who I am (although I am always learning and growing) and if a confident, adventurous woman intimidates you...move on :)

I am not a submissive who is looking for a Dom to take care of me, mend me, fix me. 

I am however, looking for someone who knows themself, appreciates strength in others, is employed! and can see past just bdsm and realize there is more to a relationship than whips and floggers...

dang...I sound bossy don't I! lol