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My philosophy of a D/s M/s relationship is based pretty much on the same principles that I was raised. The man is the dominant; the woman is to be submissive to him. When I was growing up it wasn’t referred to as D/s, it was Pentecostal (lol). I’ve always found myself fascinated with BDSM. Even as a little girl with fantasies about spankings and being held without will. I remember as a teenager saying I want to be dominated. I’ve had little experience with it unfortunately, let alone it being an active part in my life. Now as an adult, my what once was innocent fantasies have become a raging fury inside me. It’s more then something I think about from time to time it consumes my daily thoughts. I’m a strong willed person. Sometimes that’s good, sometimes not so good. I believe it takes a strong will to make a good submissive. Anyone can restrain you and do what they want to you. That’s merely a physical state of being. However, to subject one’s self freely, without restraints, takes a strong will. How would one ever learn endurance?
The power of submission lies not in the ability to kneel before another, to give over one’s body or in the wearing of a collar.
The power of submission can be found only in the heart of one who gives her love to another freely knowing what joy and pain will come from it. Roguer
On a more personal note, as far as me, what I’m made of and what makes me who I am, most really don’t want to know. That’s why I don’t usually don’t post it. I guess if you’ve read this far and stop now it’s your loss!!!!!! I was raised with values that unfortunately, are almost extinct now days. It’s only a matter of time before there lost in history books. I do believe the man is and should be the head of the house, not that his mate should be a doormat her roll just as his, is deserving of respect. I don’t think kids should be given all the rights society tells them they are entitled to have. Not to say kids should be abused or exploited. Abuse and punishment are definitely two different things. This again along with respect is one of the dying values no longer taught or demanded (sadly). I believe in God, and won’t apologize if that offends anyone! I believe a person’s word is there bond. Does anyone even know what that means anymore? It’s about honesty not only with others but also, most importantly with oneself. If you’re not willing or ready to be honest with yourself, no matter how you slice it you’re lying, and if you’ll lie to yourself no matter how ugly it sounds to you, you’ll lie to others. If the only thing I have to offer is honesty, then I’m being the best person I can be. wellie |
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