I’m a local musician and a handyman, who is in a vanilla marriage and am seeking an outlet for my Lifestyle half, but I am not seeking to destroy my marriage or children’s lives. I am a great Dad to two teen daughters. Discretion is absolutely required! So I am seeking one whom I can have and hold and call mine and "Love”. As a Dom goes I am a gentle man and consider my self a Daddy Dom. I can discipline and correct in a firm manner, I prefer a lady on the street and a whore in the bedroom. I adore my little one to wear skirts and dresses. I enjoy public "play" in a conserative manner and roaring wild in private. I have NEVER done anything to my lilone that I have not experienced on my own body; wax, flogging, whips, electro play, breathe control... etc. You are safe with me and I will not demand respect and trust, I will grow and nurture it. I do not require a very high level of format interaction, but there are times and manners that are required. I am 44 years old and am free to move about the city as my business gives me cover to meet almost anytime and any where.
Food sex sleep and art... There is nothing else! “If music be the food of love, play on; give me excess of it, that surfeiting, so the heart my sicken and so die...”~Shakespeare, Twelfth Night
Women (a Master)... craves no other tribute at thy hands But love, fair looks and true obedience.--William Shakespeare The Taming of the Shrew
Life is NOT a journey to the grave w/the intention of arriving safely in an attractive & well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out screaming-What a Ride!
Daddy Dom
I have been asked several times what a Daddy Dom really is and how that differs for any other Dominate. First, I want E/everyone to know, it has NOTHING to do with incest, and it isn’t age play or any fetish for or with children .
Daddy Dom : I can only say what it means to me, others may have a different impression and there are several web pages that define it in different ways. Just do a search on Yahoo there’s plenty.
In my view a Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive’s best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn’t mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what’s best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He’s not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.
He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND… a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!
He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can’t ! SO … it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may through her way and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom will listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her “Knight in Shining Armor”.
The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.
There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.
He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it., when she feels unsure of herself he will whisper encouraging words for her. When she feels ugly he will reassure her how beautiful she is to him ... when she is scared he will be her safety net, her medium against the world if need be. She is his pride and joy … his main comfort in life … his reason for living. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way he cares for her, she is the one that puts the twinkle in his eye! Even though she is all woman, she is his little one and he is her Daddy ! Just remember … he may be a Daddy but he is still and foremost, a Dom!
