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We are a married couple living in the Cincinnati area. We are searching for another (sub or slave) to join our house. This person must be honest in their need to be owned, not just be a kinky sex partner. We are “normal” people with “normal” lives if you think all lifestylers are like the novels especially meaning the “50 shades” crowd don’t bother. We are dominants, not masters. If you, like many here, don’t understand the difference between these two words, ask us, and we’ll explain them to you. We don’t claim to know it all, but we have a very clear picture of our way already, without any outside “help”, or “instruction”. If you are looking to serve, we welcome you. Your age, social standing, race, or physical characteristics are unimportant. If you wish to serve, you may come here. From the beginning we will ask for a phone number so we can text and eventually a phone conversion, we are not here to have cyber sex. We will answer any message sent to us, but if you want to establish a relationship with us. To say you want to serve, and give up everything to us, but refuse to talk on the phone is ludicrous. Trust me when I say we can spot lies and B.S. So, let’s not waste each other’s time.
Now, that we have the formalities down. There is so much more about us then just lifestyle. We enjoy our 5 dogs and 2 cats,Going to the club, or just for a dinner, maybe we will go hiking and camping, or just spending time with friends and family, just spending some time on the couch watching a movie. You never know with us. We have a very relaxed and informal code of conduct in our family, most of the time. There are times that the intensity and formality increase drastically[.
My Ideal Person The main thing we look for is politeness, caring to animals, has eclectic tastes outside of the bdsm world and mainly someone with intelligence, if you can"t hold a conversation don;t bother. A good work ethic (again if you are lazy or have an excuse don't bother) is a must everyone here makes their contribution to the betterment of the family, one way or another. You might have a job outside the home, or you might work side by side with us on various projects. There will of course always be domestic duties that you will perform, as that is a slave’s place. Any slave that is unwilling to pull their own weight will be punished and/or released. There is no “free ride”.
If there are things that a slave cannot or will not do, these are designated in the beginning and once agreed upon, are always avoided. But a slave should think these things out carefully, because once service has begun, there will be no changes unless we say so.
In pain play, we do have a safe word. Abuse of this word will cause a slave to be punished and to not use safe words just seems unwise to us.
Our way is our way, like it or not. If you disagree, fine, you have that right. If you still have questions, by all means, ask. But if you want a respectful answer, show us the same in the question. we will be glad to exchange information and pictures from that point
thank you
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