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Dominant Couple, 19
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Male Submissive, 48, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 40
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About WannaSPOON
I'm young compared to most who practice and participate in the kink
lifestyle, but I'm determined to learn as much as I can and to do things
in a healthy, wholesome manner. I have learned a lot in the last 8
months or so about myself, what I want from my relationships, what BDSM
and Leather mean to me and about the type of people one can find who
make kink a part of their lives.
As for me, I am drawn to some of the more...intense parts of things. I
am, a lot of the time, a traditional Sadist (I'm having the most fun
when you're hating it) and sometimes I just enjoy the look in a person's
face when I make them squirm. BDSM is a small part sexual and a very
large part spiritual and personal for me; sex is sort of an
after-thought. I have gotten much more in tune with my inner workings as
I've learned about the lifestyle and what part I wish to play with it
and, in doing so, I have discovered a very interesting practice: energy
play.
I have grown quite fond of whips in the last few months. When I hold
one it feels like a part of me; like it's alive and I'm just using it
like a longer arm. I like them more than most other toys I've used
(knives and violet wands are up there, too) and spend a bit of my free
time just throwing them around.
The next step for me is to learn more and continue on my path through
Leather and make better sense of who I am and how to handle the
additional responsibilities that come with being the top part of a
relationship (and seeing how many of my friends are corruptible and can
be brought into our little slice of the "dark side"). It's been quite an
intense adventure/learning experience and I'm only just getting
started. Feel free to message me if you're interested in waxing
eloquent, talking philosophy or psycho-babbling.
What do I want in a relationship? Beyond the usual "honesty, love,
devotion, intelligence, etc." spiel, ultimately I want to find someone
who is willing to give me total control of their life. I want someone
who is independent and strong-willed, but submits to me and my desires.
I don't like to have to micromanage, but I reserve the right
to. My sense of D/s is military-like (me being the officer, you being
the enlisted).
Yes, I know that's a tall order for me given my age, but I'm
certainly willing to try things to see where they may go with anyone.
Time is something I definitely have and patience is one of my greatest
virtues.
-MrE
P.S. I'm not, and probably never will be, poly. I don't have any
desire to share that which is mine.
"Real learning requires the willingness to question the status quo" |
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Do slaves come with a receipt, is there an RMA process or some sort of instant-exchange?? I was offered to buy one yesterday for a few thousand dollars and I just wondered if I could return it should I be dissatisfied with the product.? I don't want to have buyers remorse for such a major purchase.
/endsarcasm
Really?? You thought I would send you money because of a poorly-formatted blanket e-mail you sent me about how your "Master" has trained you in the submissive arts?? *pffffft* Jog on!
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Haven't used this website in quite a while.? Basically I'm busy with life, have a wonderful g/f and am looking for a better job.? That should cover it for now; I'm tired.
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If any of you were curious, I moved to Atlanta -- specifically Roswell -- a few weeks ago for a job and to live with some friends.? Much more and better opportunities for me here than at home.?
If anyone in the Roswell area is interested in meeting and making friends let me know.? I'm always looking to make more.
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I've been back in New Orleans for about 6 weeks now.? Berlin was a blast!? It's strange how my life changed from being over there.? Not in many major ways, but there are definitely things of which I am more away now than I was before.?
I'm also oh-so-ready to be finished with school, now.? I want to get on with things that actually matter to me as opposed to kill time for a piece of paper.? The problem, as some of you may be aware >.>, is that jobs -- particularly entry-level jobs -- are few and far between.? I hope with my skill set I won't have too much trouble finding a real job, but it was quite frustrating to start looking around and see tons of "lead designer" and "head software developer" job advertisements; ya know, things I'm not yet qualified to do.? The search is really just getting started and I am hopeful.? Wish me luck, if you have any to spare. ?
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I've been in Berlin for about 6 weeks now and it's one of the most amazing experiences of my life.? I've met some really awesome people and made great friends.? It's also making me second-guess my thoughts about staying in New Orleans once I graduate.? There is still a lot of the world I want to see and I wouldn't be at all disappointed by just coming back to Berlin.? One day I will be ready to settle down but that day keeps getting further away and, for once in my life, I'm okay with that uncertainty.
I'm not ruling anything out of my life options; quite the contrary.? I'm interested in anything you might have to say to me and I am always eager to meet new people but don't expect me to be "the one" just yet.
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So I've met some pretty cool people recently.? I'm glad people aren't so pretentius as to ignore attempts at friendship.? I hope to do a little more active participation in the New Orleans area next year once I finish school.? I would do it sooner, but I'm heading to Berlin for 6 months in August.? It's going to be an amazing adventure and I can't wait.? If anyone wants to help me practice conversational Germn, don't hesitate to write and I would be most appreciative.
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So I've been a member here for a while but I've never done anything productive.? Sent a few messages, looked at a few profiles, mostly just to see what and who was in my area.? I've made contact with one or two people but nothing really productive.? I wonder how genuine people REALLY are when it comes to social networking?
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