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Dominant Couple, 19
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Male Submissive, 48, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 40
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About wannabedelite
I am no longer a single woman, or new to the lifestyle. I now have more than a little experience. I am looking for part-time/full-time/regular Doms to guide me and teach me, but not for my life-mate,Whom I have found. Unfortunately, he is not my Dominant. So we are looking to add to our poly family. I have few hard limits and am willing to explore everything else-at least verbally!!! I DON'T do: kids, krap or Korpses, incest, branding/scarring, the deliberate drawing of blood, urolagnia (tho I have decided that urine from the neck down wouldn't be so bad), and religious play.
I was willing to relocate, but have recently found that this will not suit me at this time. My family needs me, and I need them.
I hope, soon, to be willing to relocate (again)...after everything settles down once more. So, if you are interested in me, be prepared to be patient.
PLEASE!!! Use some imagination, and take some effort when messaging me!!! I get quite a lot of mail, and it is frustrating to deal with people who obviously don't really want to know me, as a person, before they want to start dominating me!!! Even MORE annoying to deal with those who do not show any intelligence or effort in their correspondance.
You have to EARN the right to be MY Dom, even if you have a Dominant personality!!! A REAL Dom knows that!!! He does not just demand that I start calling him by Honorifics (such as 'Sir', or 'Master') that he has not shown me he deserves. Don't get me wrong...I will always behave respectfully, but I expect- and deserve- the same from you!!!
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I find that the days lie ahead of me like a haze of emotion spreading from my feet to the horizon far away. I long to reach the end of them, but fear their coming at the same time. I reach for someone to bring meaning to my life...knowing, at the same time, that only I have the power to do that. To bring meaning and joy into this sparse landscape of fear and pain. I DO want to belong to someone, do I not??? I want to have a Him be my meaning, don't I??? Then why does it seem that I flee from a Dom's touch, even when it is outside forces that seem to actually be causing the separation??? Is it really me doing the fleeing??? Or is my fear and doubt causing me to question my motives and actions??? And am I truly seeking, only to have my search be impeded??? I long for a time when I can truly KNOW what I want and need, not just think I do, all while questioning if this is so. Maybe my True Master will come along and steal me away from all of this uncertainty...maybe... |
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I am no longer under consideration, or owned. But I am not entirely free, either. I regret that my not knowing what I wanted caused someone pain. And these regrets keep me attached to the feelings of not being free. But I am relieved that I realized it in time to make this decision now, before feelings got any more involved. I will consider this a learning experience, and go on from here. I hope that my former Master will be well, and find someone better suited to his needs, without holding the experience with me against her. |
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