Wander2

New to CollarMe, but not BDSM. I hope this works...

I'm a dominant male with many years of experience in R/L BDSM, living in Sacramento, CA with my slave, lily. Lily, who is bi, has recently discovered her switch side, and she's seeking a male sub to play with, as I don't switch. Since we're a poly couple, and have been from the beginning, this will have my full approval -- provided the guy she chooses as a sub gets my approval :). But I'm also looking for a new sub/slave, a female one, with the hopes of potentially building into a long-term poly relationship.

This is what I offer: Honesty, intelligence, empathy, imagination, and maybe love if we're lucky. I'm a very loving guy, I believe in integrity, and I'm very loyal to my people. I can be as gentle or as cruel as you need me to be. I'm good with whips, good with restraints (I do my own leathercraft), and VERY good with psychological domination and mindfucks. I WILL get into your head -- I promise -- if you want me there.

We own a house in Sacramento, and we'd be happy to have you come over, but we're not looking to have anyone move in at the present time. I have two teenage sons who live with their mother and visit me on alternate weekends; I would expect complete discretion and respect for my privacy and theirs where family time is concerned.

This is what I want in a sub/slave: An open mind, an open heart, and a sincere desire to serve and be trained. You must genuinely enjoy bondage, because you'll spend a lot of time engaging in it. You must enjoy sex -- at least oral and vaginal; I'm not much of an ass user. Masochism is fine, but you don't need to be a painslut (they're harder to punish anyway!). You must be completely honest with me at all times; any falsehood could end our relationship. You must be disease-free -- we are, and we want to stay that way.

And lily needs to like you. It helps if you're bisexual, because lily is, and she wants to play with slave pussy, too -- besides her own.

Also: As I said, I do make leather restraints. You will probably accumulate a collection in your time in my service, if you want them. I'm also looking to begin serious fetish/BDSM photography, and if you feel confident in front of a camera I'd probably like to use you as a model. (Keep in mind that this also means I'll be photographing other femsubs; I expect no jealousy on this. This is not negotiable.)

That's a start. If you think you're interested, drop me a message and we'll talk about it.