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	About W0LFD0M GOLD COAST To begin I will just say that looking for a real (suitable) girl is not for the lighthearted. If you like what you read/see you'll need to tell me you're interested as my mind reading skills are not quite as good as they use to be. you willingness to treat me well will be reciprocated with the care and protection of a Wolf but the capacity to be devoured just as quickly. I take the role of Master as seriously as I expect you to take the role as my girl. not interested in blood, body waste or non consensual bruising. you'll be spanked and bound as I see fit. you'll be cuddled also, as I see your need for that. You will be deprived of things and you will be grateful and appreciate everything WOLF has in store for you, either in public, private, or the dungeon. Although you may not realise where your limits are , Safety is my prime obligation so be secure in the knowledge you'll not be pushed beyond those limits, and trained to improve them. I will own your body. it will be at my bidding. I will provide a list of rules and you will never sway from them. my hands are strong and bare handed spanking is an easy task that i will deliver, i can swiftly and precisely put sting in your tail. stop for a moment and think what a WOLF can do to a lamb. you'll never be taken for granted.

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Wondering if i am the real deal ? The simple answer is, If I was going to impersonate someone , I'd impersonate someone taller and better looking !

THESE ARE NOT MY WORDS > interested in your view :)

an extract some might find worth reading , reprinted here with permission

One of the things that boggle my mind about BDSM is this idea that that a Dominant should just ‘know’ what a slave wants. While it’s true that many submissives are interested in the same types of play, they are not all the same person.
This sort of thinking has led a number of submissives like you to have the question of how they can teach a Dominant to control them, but there’s always a hesitation in these questions.
How do you get anyone to know what you like and what you don’t like? YOU TALK TO THEM. You need to sit with this new partner and tell them what you enjoy about being a submissive, the sorts of things you’d like done to you, and what you don’t want them to try with you.
You need to be clear about what gives you pleasure, what gives you a rush, and what turns you off completely. You cannot simply expect a Dominant to just know what you want.
Some submissives I know, and I hope you’re not one of them, will try to manipulate their scenes with a Dominant, saying that they are ‘teaching’ them how to control them. NO. When you give control to someone else, you trust them to do things that will control you. You trust them to keep your limits in mind.
The ONLY times a submissive should speak up during a scene are when they are being physically damaged, when a preset limit is being cross, when your Dominant is asking you a question or when you want to let them know that you really are enjoying what they are doing by thanking them. That’s it. Additionally, if a submissive isn’t getting enough punishment, for example, they should not actively try to be bad in order to get their way.
One way to express what you like doing a scene is to just thank your Dominant for doing what they are doing.

“Thank you Master, for giving Me this spanking its turning Me on so much”
“Thank you Sir, I love to worship your cock”
“Thank you Master, for flogging this sub girl. Its feels so good when you swing it down on your sub ass”

Its called positive feedback and does wonders for letting your Dominant know what you are enjoying.
The best way to educate your boyfriend about what you like is to sit down and talk with your partner about the way that your relationship will work in the context of BDSM. This should be a lengthy conversation that takes place far from the bedroom, not in the middle of having sex. You need time to discuss the needs of both partners and this isn’t something to be done quickly. Once you’ve had this discussion, then you can start to try things out in the bedroom. Some things will work, some will not. It’s a part of the process.
Don’t expect perfection. No Dominant, beginner or experienced will ever be able to give you the exact BDSM scene that you have dreamed about for the past 10 years. There is a big difference between fantasy and reality and you must make sure you understand that before you even start.
It can also help to debrief about a scene after it’s over and the power balance has been restored. In doing so, you will both learn about what you need from each other, and you will be able to create a more satisfying result. Again, this gives you an opportunity to express what you liked and what you didn’t like.
And don’t be afraid to try things that your partner thinks might work (outside of your hard limits, of course), as you might be surprised at what they come up with.
Don’t sit there and think about how you can teach a Dominant to control you. Instead, talk about what turns you on as a submissive and then let them find their own style. Yes, there will be things you might enjoy more than others, but if you’re being controlled, the heart of being submissive, you are most likely to enjoy the results by letting go of that control.

Regards,

Master Bishop

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