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A nun, a priest, and a rabbi walk into a bar.  The bartender looks at them and says, "What is this, a JOKE?"

Ask for the pic...  New to the scene and seeing if it's for me.  I have always felt the need to submit to the woman in my relationships... but she also has to show me that she is worthy of it and earn my total respect.

I *might* have a bit of a switch in me... but the dominant side of me is only sexual- and only comes out sometimes when I'm really, really horny.

Would love to meet some people here with common interests and such, and maybe I'll even meet that woman here to whom I can submit fully ;)  The whole "online romance" thing is nice, and it may help to gauge our compatibility and is a good substitute when we cannot meet, but I am looking to meet real people.

To clarify... submission to me means: doing whatever the woman wants with as few limits as possible.  My kinky interests are mostly irrelevant in that, except as utilitarian rituals to reinforce the roles in the relationship.

As for skills... I can clean pretty well, have been told i can do a very good job of cheering people up, (especially if they like my humor- which does not click with everyone) and would be willing to learn just about any skill to please a Domme in a committed relationship.  Very good with computers and also a great logical thinker.

Now having said that... I also hope to meet people with whom I can have deep discussions... who appreciate my idiotic, and sometimes sarcastic sense of humor... who appreciate my sensitivity and emotions... who can show me new experiences, both vanilla and BDSM (my "curious about" list is a great place to start in that regard,) to help me to grow as a person and whom i can help grow as a person.  (Although I am far more of a nurture-ee than a nurturer.)

What makes me tick?  Logic.  Nearly computer-like logic- which is not to say that I do not have strong emotions (the contrary is true!)  It is to say however, that I do not think it is healthy or smart to be driven by emotion, at least with serious decisions, and that I use my logic to evaluate my emotions and not the other way around.  Also, I speak my mind.  Always.  Period.  End of story.  That does not change until I submit to someone and they tell me not to- and even then, I expect to be able to speak it sometimes, even if it is negative.  No healthy vanilla relationship can exist without both parties doing so, let alone a D/s one.

In my spare time, I love to read... learn (Game and decision theory is fascinating...) talk to people... and I spend a little too much time pondering all the experiences in my life, where they all fit in, and how they have affected me as a person and made me who I am today.

Non-local travel is difficult for me with gas prices the way they are- although that will hopefully change soon.

Like to read: Science, History (especially American,) classics... tend to prefer shorter fictional works (short stories and novellas) over longer ones.  LOVE Shakespeare... but the only problem is that it was meant to be performed, NOT read- I can't stand reading it.  Unfortunately, I've never had the chance to see it in a theater, only some of the filmed versions.

Only like classical music and the odd song here and there... but looking to expand myself in that manner.

Love Mexican food, even if I can never remember which foods are which, lol!  I also like most Japanese food and am very curious about Korean food.
11/20/2008 9:07:57 PM
Not even sure anymore... I've had some experiences over the past couple of months that have made me wonder if I'm a switch- or maybe even a Dom, deep inside of me... I would update my profile, but I'm not sure if I'm looking for a relationship right now (BDSM or vanilla.)
9/30/2008 8:05:12 PM
I have found someone who is AMAZING here to help me explore my submissive/kinky side, even if it is almost certainly a temporary arrangement.  (You have asked not to be named- but you know who you are!)  Still looking to meet new people with common interests and network in case I decide that I do want to be a full-time/live-in sub/slave.
submissivegirl25
 
 Age: 20
 Los angeles, California