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About vvdarknessvv
Throwing caution to the wind, and not worry about what the world thinks of you, is the beginning of any story you tell about yourself. Do you paint the picture of a shinny black knight, or do you give them all the nitty gritty honest details. Well I think that the best approach is always straight foreword honesty, and let them decide. For unlike Tinker Bell, I don’t nee them to exist, and don’t need people to like me, to continue to be me!
I considered myself to be a complete and utter newbie to the whole scene, though I have been in an out of it for the last six years of my life. I am a switch personality when it comes to sexuality, but only in a extremely heterosexual manner, unless my Domme if I had one told me to be otherwise. Generally speaking I am dominate around males, an alpha. But at the same time it can totally just depend on the force of will of the person around me. When I first joined the scene, I went through having a few slaves, also had a mistress for a while. Love her to death and still miss her, but our lives diverged at a point and never really merged back up.
I am married to my wonderful wife, who though is into a certain extent of bdsm, we don’t sync up on that level. Don’t get me wrong we love each other and have a good sex life for the most part, but just the quality of us is a bit different. We both are Polyamrous and have other play partners, her more so then me, but that just by the luck of the draw. We also both have different needs, wants and desires.
Part of mine is the need to have a Domme, and to be some ones slave, but as condition discussed type of thing. I am defiantly willing to be molded and trained. Again to a certain extent I am still very new to the scene and working myself back into it. I am an American that moved here when I got married. So the London Scene, or even the UK scene is far more new to me. I have two or three friends that I have made since I have been here that are part of the scene, and a couple of them are going to start taking me around with them to learn again and adapt to being those situations.
To be perfectly honest, on a certain level I am still very new to know what I want, need, or like, and need some direction. I am open to having a secondary/Primary relationship with anyone who becomes my Domme, but they must understand unless they live with me and my wife, she comes first at the end of the day. Not that this is the place for it per say, but if you are seeking just a Vanilla Poly relationship as well that is more then welcome and open for discussion.
So to be clear, what I am currently looking for in some ways are mentors/playthings, as well as possible a Domme, preferably female and willing to get to know my needs before trying to change them. ~.^
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Hello everyone I started a blog, if your are intrested please read. If not just ignore this.
http://darkestprince.wordpress.com/
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So I am very happy so far, have had a wonderfully welcome so far, looking forward to many many more friends on here.?
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Male Dominant, 49, queens, New York
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Male Submissive, 27, bakersfield, California
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