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Pan Female Switch, 35,  United Kingdom
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I find that the vast majority of people I encounter do not take their time getting to know prospective partners and building up a good trusting relationship that leads to safe, intense and rewarding play. If you are looking for an easily pleased rent-a-sub go elsewhere. Of course I can be submissive. I LOVE being submissive. But this will only happen if I trust you. So I am sorry but if your profile reads like a sociopath's wet dream... I am probably going to think you are not a good person to speak to. If you are intelligent, interesting and approach respectfully we might get on well. Until I decide I trust you, I expect you treat me as you would any new lady that you have only just met! So if your first message to me makes you sound like you have bodies buried under your patio... see above!
If you believe it is necessary to build a depth of trust and a connection that makes me think "yes, this is a man that I desperately want to submit to" then you will find I am not any trouble at all.
I will beg for it, for the right person.
If you want to get to know an intelligent, independent, educated woman and build up enough trust that she allows you to see and thoroughly enjoy her vulnerable submissive side, then say hello.
I value intelligence, a sense of humour, and good open communication.
I do not tolerate humiliation/objectification. Whilst I respect that others find this appealing, I simply find it upsetting and not conducive to good play. I am a human being and expect to be treated as one.
I can be deliciously submissive if I feel safe enough to allow somebody special to see me safely through that experience. I expect dominants to be mindful of the experience I am having, to play safely and to respect my limits. I enjoy an awful lot of wonderfully filthy things, so with the right partner play can be interesting, intense and mutually rewarding. I do not do casual sex or casual kink. I need to at the very least to have a good solid friendship with my play partners. Without the foundation of trust I see no point in playing at all. I am cheeky, sarcastic and often described as being full of mischief. I am looking for friendship first and foremost, but with time and trust that could lead to other things. One day I hope to find someone wonderful to spend the rest of my life with, but I am willing to wait for the right person, rather than compromise myself to force something to work.
I am based in Greater Manchester. However, because I am looking for friendship rather than looking to jump straight into a serious relationship I will happily talk to anyone from the UK. I have no objection to train journeys if I feel someone is worth the trip. :) One of the things I love most in life is being able to talk openly with people without feeling the need to censor my thoughts and feelings and hide parts of my personality away. Friends who have experience in this lifestyle are a must!
Aside from kinky pursuits I am a sword wielding, ex burlesque dancing, mountain biking, kite flying, rum drinking, cannon firing, pyrotechnician pirate pixie.
Yes. Really! :)
If you want to know more just ask X











 Female Switch

 United Kingdom

 5' 3"

 138 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male



 Art Galleries


 Fine Dining


 Renaissance Faires




 Canes and Crops


 Rear End Play

 Massage (Giving)

 Orgasm Control

 Role Playing




 Board Games

 Online RPGs

 Science Fiction


 Intellectual Discourse

 Alternative Music

 Industrial Music


 Rock Music


 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets


 Musical Theater





 Local BDSM Community

 Being Massaged

 Erotic touch

 Hair Pulling

 Medical fetish play

 Mental Bondage


 Outdoor Bondage


 Sensory Play


 Wax Play


 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games

 True Crime

 Web Surfing













 Classical Music

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music



 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera

 Curious About:

 Suspension Bondage

 Victorian Lifestyle





 Maid / Butler Service

 Rubber Fetish



 1950s Lifestyle

 Female Sovereignty


 Hard Limits:


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