Violetfmme

What i am.....a service oriented submissive with almost 10 years of experiences and knowledge. i have been in 2 long term, D/s relationships. And now, i am ready for the next adventure. i am happily married. He is well aware of my needs and desires, and he graciously allows me my freedom. He and i have no secrets. He is a Dom, just not my Dom. We both are very active in a local BDSM group. And we practice polyamory.

What i am not.......skinny, vapid, or a doormat! i am bbw, i have a brain, and i know how to use it, and i believe any relationship is a partnership, that takes work on both sides. i am not looking for casual play, or just kinky sex. Been there, done that, way too many times.

What i seek........is someone who will respect me for all the things i am, and all the things i am not. He should have lifestyle experiences, and life experiences similar to mine, ideally. And he should be local to me, as it would be difficult for me to carry on a long distance relationship, or travel. He should also be aware that the care and feeding of a submissive, takes up a pretty good chunk of time. While i am not particulrly needy, i do expect to be a priority, rather than an option. And i am hoping for a long term committed partnership, based on trust, respect, and mutual attraction. There has to be chemisty!

Most importantly, the one i seek should not take himself, or this lifestyle, too seriously. This is supposed to be fun, and life is far too short, not to laugh every day. Eventually, we are going to have to have vanilla conversations, so let's hope we have more than just being kinky, in common!

My life is an open book, so if you'd like to know more, please say hello.