this site is one of the funniest this one happens to frequent.  

case in point:  the wonderful selection of profiles from "Dominant" Women who post profiles and journals that express a non-interactive part on Their own.  as if a snarky comment, or gratuitous image would stir the blood of anything other than one trying to "get their rocks off".  one wonders how this would in any way prompt or somehow illicit dozens of potential slavering applicants to come beating down Their in-boxes.  this one especially likes the one-sentence drivel that falls into this category:  "Serious Domme, looking for a real submissive that will obey My every word!"  those being Their only words.  or better yet:  "I have dozens/hundreds/(insert quantity) of mails, and just don't have time to go through them all." and "I am at the ready to press my block button, it's sooo easy!"  is advertising ones junk mail meant to be a form of incentive?  seeing what trash You have to surf through, is that really meant as a means to encourage the rabble to "tow the line"?

precious, don't you think?

assuming this is natural, at least here--as the plethora of similar profiles and posts seem to provide evidence for--apparently the quality or characteristic of a submissive warrants nothing more than dismissive disregard we so much afford litter or road-kill.  if one were to use this as an axiom, one is led to think what it means to be Dominant, is simply that One must exhibit a persona of inconsideration, rudenes, and basically be a cunt, apathetic about any "relationships" in Her life other than perhaps the tv-guide.  funny how it appears that many need nothing more than a snapshot of stocking, hip, or pouty lip in a shallow attempt to advertise something other.  it is no wonder that Their profiles are littered with anger and black-bile, bitching about people who treat them like shit nor show them any respect.  does one treat the canker on their lip with respect?  for it doesn't seem that many of the "amazing Dommes are anything other.  if one has the free-time, awaiting a train or such, and not interested in flipping through the idle advertisement of their habitual magazines; it is actually quite funny to read beyond the ridiculous fury and laugh at Their heart-broken rants.

i wonder, if One would--let's say--want to buy a pair of shoes.  does She not sample a few establishments?  try on a few?  see which one feels most comfortable?  make a choice based upon personal desire, style, perhaps even a compliment to Her wardrobe?  or does She point blindly at the shelves and say, "Those!  Those will and should fit my feet!"  

curious stupitidy, no?  yet does this not seem like how it is done here?

apparently, if the lack of effort is to be taken as a standard, from Their point of view submission is a disease.  is it as ubiquitous as the common litter one sees on the sides of the road, or the silly scribblings of tags of self-indulgent-graffiti that defame our places of interest?  to put bluntly:  who cannot spit, and hit someone else's refuse?  nice to see submission, supposedly a trait One seeks, desires, and wishes to cultivate; considered so common and not worth the effort of simple spelling.

let us just take a moment, and consider the one who might be interested in serving:  might they do so because they have some inner voice, some need to do so?  or perhaps they have assets and abilities which may please, compliment, and impress another Who may not have those said skills.  perhaps it is because servitude somehow fulfills their nature and character.  

when You go shopping for groceries, do You pick the orange/apple/or mango from the top if the pile, or do You look, investigate, and pick the freshest?  do You not pick that which will satisfy Your tastes most at that given time?  

and this is fruit. 

why would You pick a submissive based on a moment, a few words, a profile, or a brief chat; for what could You possibly have discovered in such fleeting time?

this one does not speak of anyone in particular, but as a casual observance of those he has happened to survey, and ponder upon.  it is mostly a curiosity, like an anthopologist discovering some previously unknown backward tribe, which amuses and intrigues all in the same stroke.

. . . . .

assuming no one reads in this day and age--especially if there isn't the drop of a word, such as "pussy", "ass", "fucking"--so there you go; nevertheless, if anyone would bother to, and be interested in having a conversation more enlightening than reading the ingredients of a candy-bar wrapper, or most profiles on collerme.com, please feel free to speak.

adieu,

vieta

Oh, seemingly so close, but perhaps the attribute seen on numerous occasions is a learning tool.   "I do not chat here, message me on yahoo messenger--insert name--since when does on fear a online forum such as this, where they are unable to maintain communication?  And more curiously, with such an invitation devoid of even the simplest of recognoiter of a profile, assume there is any legitimate conversation to be had.  Now, this one does not damn the scam-artists, for each of us in our own way must scrape a living, but one would think that if someone was bent in such a way to peruse such a persona, they would have at least a little more intelligence to craft their scams a bit more effectively.

well, if nothing more, this site is ripe ground to find examples of such pathetic individuals and techniques of squandering the weak and useless.  Sad truly, as a few--and this one states few--as he had near to no interaction with anyone who merits consideration of discourse or consideration, beyond the amusement of a few wasteful minutes.  

Point iin fact, this one spent a good hour--having some down time between duties with nothing else to distract himself with--having a discussion. With a supposed Domme; that after a handful of minutes not only stopped talking to a "potential submissive", as they weren't capitulating after the first two minutes, exposed themselves one, not to be who they said they were, but also showed quite submissive tendancies in the conversation.  to be honest, it was amusing to point out these points 20 minutes into the conversation, and yet wS still able to draw them i to further conversation.

as a writer, perhaps this site will prove more beneficial in creating character studies of real pathetic individuals than otherwise.

again, this one assumes few if any actually read, but if they do, and would like toe have in intercourse--not of the physical kind--but with someone able to tell time or hold a conversation beyond the banal, please let me know.

humbly,

vieta

was considering writing about the interesting observation that many Dominant Women--now this may apply to Dominant Men to, but as i don't frequent their profiles do not see evidence to-date--seem to be rather embittered.  Their profiles come off as highly aggressive--"Fuck you, as you don't listen closely to my rants!", or "you are a fake because you don't tremble to my pathetic display of potential!"--all-in-all, a fairly large percentages of profiles and journal entries.

isn't it a pleasure to read something not birthed from personal damage or small-minded perceptions?  this one, for one, is thrilled to find the profile that isn't a cookie-cutter, but perhaps took the Woman a minute or two to let Her fingers type out the actual thoughts in Her head.  and even more a joy to read Someone who sees this lifestyle, and Her experiences--whether positive or negative--in a light that doesn't give into ranting, but growth.  

the collective W/we seek a possible connection.  say the connection is one of Power-exchange, in essence a "trust" built upon interaction.  how can one trust the ability to Dominate, to "be in control" if their online personification is riddled with error, sloppiness, or evidence of a "lack-of-mastery" in their own lives?  what does this say to Their ability to Master another life?

it is saddening, the general examples W/we find in such sites such as this, when what W/we claim and aspire to discover is something grand, or unique--something meaningful.

that is not to say You do not exist, that Y/you don't share those thoughts; but it is disheartening not to see more examples of it.

adieu, to the invisible readers.

vieta

this one has only recently began visiting this site again, in hopes to engage in conversation with intelligent Dominants and submissives who might be able to think outside the box.  uniformity is ultimately so boring.

i must say, this one is rather unimpressed by a number of profiles, which either post an animation of themselves--an animation that wasn't created or formed from their own efforts, or simply swiped from some unknown source, as a means of protraying a snarky attitude they happen to feel at the moment.

secondly--as a general observation--this one has found utterly amusing the aspect of the "financial Domme"; She who proports to be the end-all amazing creature who states blatantly that they require one's tribute or wallet, combined with a profile that provides next to nothing other than a few words of dirty talk or threats, or perhaps entreaties of amazing experience. 

this one wonders whether there are idiots aplenty to meet such requirements; and more to the point, why they would be so parthetic as to "buy into" such a relationship?  if it really is simply a matter of ungodly amounts of disposable income, and nothing to do with it, this one would be happy to undertake a Dominant personality, decored with a few well-chosen web-thefted snapshots, in order to take those apparently unneeded bills.

Due to the prevalence of such profiles, this one is curious just how effective a form of apathetic passive income this might in fact generate? 

perhaps this appears as a rant, and mayhaps it is; nevertheless, as i have just returned to browse about--with the intent of meeting fellow-attuned people, felt it necessary to comment on the plethora of trash he finds himself surfing through.

although next to no-one reads now-a-days, i don't expect anyone to have read this entry; but if anyone has, and has similar opinions, would be happy to open a dialogue with them.

enjoy Y/your weeks.

vieta