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VeryOralSlave

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Male Switch, 36, Ontario
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About VeryOralSlave

Dommes Rule!!!

As far as many of my BDSM and vanilla interests go, please see my check listed items to the left.

I'm a quite successful business owner who now would like to further explore my love for submission and BDSM.

I'm in good shape physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and even financially. What I lack is the right woman to take control of me when I'm not working. My days are filled with decision making and stress. I HAVE to take control to make my business a success. But, it's also exhausting because taking control really isn't what I'm comfortable doing.

I've put the submissive side of myself aside for too long. I can now make time in my life because I can delegate many of my business duties to others.

So, what I'd like is to find the right woman who can dominate me and love me. I'd like a LTR with possible marriage to the right woman.

I'd like a woman who keeps me in my place. At home, she'd rule the house and me. In public we'd appear to be a happy, "normal" couple.

At home, she would do whatever she needed to do to keep me in line and doing what she required. This would include both punishment and rewards. And, in the case of humiliation, things that are both punishment and reward! I love to be in chastity, and to perform oral service (both front and back).

Cuckolding turns me on. Of course, there is a jealousy aspect to it. But, the humiliation of it and the giving up of my ego for my loved one's pleasure is even more important. Having my Lady be able to do what she wants sexually while she controls completely my sexuality is my supreme gift.

I'm not looking for any particular type of woman. I'm open to any race. And, I'm someone who finds BBWs beautiful. Basically, I want to be loved and owned by a woman who values me and my love. Other than wanting to dominate me, having a loving heart and preferably being at least 35 years old or older, I'm open!

Hi to everyone.  I'm sorry that I've been slow to respond to my messages.  I mean no disrespect to anyone.  I've been traveling on business and have had very limited time to do much with this site.

 

Let me say that I've been pleasantly surprised at how many women would like to have a cuckold.

 

One one hand, it doesn't seem to go well with the notion that women want a protector and someone who is loyal to them.  And, of course, if there is a child born, tradition says that the father should be the spouse of the mother.

 

On the other hand,  if you allow tradition to be viewed objectively, many women would like to have a cuckold husband.  Think about it:

1)  Their husband can still protect them if necessary.

2)  A cuckold can be (and should be) very loyal.

3)  If the cuckold is willing to be a loving dad, why does it matter who is the father?

4)  It's great to have sex with whomever (whenever) you want without it destroying your relationship.

5)  It can make for a better relationship when both the husband and wife desire this type of relationship.  It is a special bond of trust and love.

6)  It adds an infinite range of "spice" to the relationship.  Dullness is not likely to be a problem.

7)  It goes hand in glove with a female led relationship.

8)  What woman wouldn't like to virtually always get her way in any possible manner?

9)  For a man who desires this type of relationship, it is a relatively easy way for the woman to keep him for a long time (hopefully forever . . .)  He can't stray, and has no desire to do so.

OK, I've gotten several emails asking why I am so into cuckolding.  The truth is that I've only had one of these relationships.  However, it was the most exhilarating, exciting and fulfilling relationship I've ever had.  Unfortunately, the relationship ended about 2 years ago.  The reason that it ended is the ONLY reason why I have some trepidation into entering into another one. 

 But, I know that they can work and know that it is what I want.  So, if folks are interested, I'll continue to blog about how:

1)  I got into the relationship with a black woman I "hated".

2)  Some detail about what happened when we were together.

3)  Why the relationship ended.

4)  What I hope to have in a future relationship.

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