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| I am a male submissive with a love of latex and bondage. I have incorporated BDSM into my relationships for years, and have switched during that time, but the primary calling of my identity is submission to dominant women. I love being bound, collared, encased in latex, and as time goes by I find the prospect of chastity, CBT, and tease-and-denial situations more appealing than sexual release. Some people are pain sluts. I consider myself a ``restrain slut'' - the more securely I'm bound, tied, or mummified the happier I am (though apparently I have a fairly high pain tolerance too). I also enjoy a good pegging, and adore wearing latex with and for my partner, as well as loving the feeling of a secure metal collar and leash around my throat. I hope to find a play partner or romantic partner with whom I can explore these facets of myself further.
Outside the realm of BDSM I am a well-travelled, adventure loving guy. I'm a professional scientist who enjoys deep intellectual conversations. I'm told I am also an excellent communicator with good emotional intelligence too, so I'm not one of the guys from Big Bang theory! I have been to almost every continent (lived on three of them) and I'm keen to travel more. I enjoy outdoor active pursuits like kayaking, scuba diving, surfing, rock climbing (gotta know your knots for this one! :-), and bushwalking/camping. I enjoy cooking, and have a fondness for Asian, Moroccan and Mexican cuisine. I'm inordinately fond of watching sunsets. The age listed in my profile is intentionally incorrect, to protect my privacy somewhat, but it is close to what most people guess when they meet me.
I have no interest in poo, pee, or cutting. The idea of findom leaves me cold - I find it somewhat demeaning to both the male sub and the female dominant to have an interaction based on money rather than power exchange.
I'm not necessarily looking for ``the one'' right now, but ultimately I am looking for someone who I respect, and who respects my strengths. I prefer the idea of meeting new people and just seeing what happens without trying to force things. When I do find another long-term partner, outside the bedroom/dungeon I want us to be able to view each other as equals and depend upon each other through whatever adventures we pursue, and care for each other when we are vulnerable, while having a femdom ``core'' to the relationship, in whatever form it takes.
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