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Apparently collarme.com experienced a glitch and deleted my profile/account. If you have a hidden or private profile (you know who you are) please send me another message, as I don't have access to any of our correspondence.
note: I will not be checking this site much until February.
[No photo? I have reasons to value my privacy, but am happy to exchange photos soon as I know that you are actually a person. Lots of spam/BS on this site.]
I'm intelligent, lean, kinky, semi-enlightened and I know what I want. Right now, I'm looking for interesting intelligent play partners for interesting times. While this is a semi-casual thing, I have to insist on some sort of mental connection. Otherwise, what's the point? I also insist on getting to know you somewhat, and as unpleasant as this fact may be to our rational selves, the requisite physical attraction. Little (legal age) girls are delicious, but so are other types of women. This is not a conceit, but a simple fact: every woman I've been involved with has by their own admission learned a lot from me.
I'm not into the whole public community oriented bdsm thing. Not that I disapprove, but for me simply having similar sexual alignments isn't enough of a reason to socialize with a group. Also, I have my own ideas about these wirings that all of us here carry, and don't think there are any rules save for those that work between two consenting adults. I despise mammalian tropes in the world at large (for we have so much more potential), but absolutely love them in private and between the sexes.
This aforementioned wiring connects to many things, but also runs deep and dark within me. That doesn't mean I'm an asshole or engage in anything that could be termed abuse without first being sure of who I'm dealing with and what buttons I'm pushing. I don't unshackle my demons unless my partner has left out cake for them. All of this oh so serious look at Mr. Deep and Dark doesn't mean I'm exclusively looking for a particular type of extreme play or that I'm defined by those aspects. My tastes are quite varied, and also overlap with the tender, soft and whimsical. If a mindfuck is your thing, I'd be honored to have access to your innermost thoughts...
(and no matter what, at this early stage, I'm only interested in TAKING you, not BREAKING you.)
What I don't want: bullshit, drama, dishonesty, or anyone actively fighting chemical addictions outside of caffeine or nicotine. This does not mean I don't personally enjoy or employ chemical tools. It simply means I respect them.
If you're a person who has trouble keeping your word, don't bother. If you consider someone who loves to learn (and I'm not just talking about kink), step to the front of the line. If you have in depth knowledge of a particular subject, like to share, and are passionate about it, then by all means: RUN to the front of the line.
What I expect, after earning it of course: respect, worship, adoration, surrender.
I take this play seriously, but don't take myself TOO seriously. There are also many more facets to my being than this particular niche.
(A little bit of whimsey, humor, laughter also goes a long way.)
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