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Short Version ? I'm 24 and have a little bit of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I'm on here to connect with other folks, chat (BDSM, weather, etc.) and perhaps even become friends or meet up. I'm not looking for anything in particular, but open to whatever happens. BDSM interests lie more along the lines of tease/denial and, in the case of long-term D/s, a more subtle approach to being dominated than just whips and chains. (Of course, I enjoy that occasionally, too.) Outside of BDSM, I have a bunch of interests, including history, languages and math/science/tech. Politics and religion interest me as well, but those are conversations for a later time. ? I tend to get along better with down-to-Earth folks than the diva/princess type. I get along well with people who know the difference between "you're" and "your", who can hold an intelligent conversation, and who are open-minded. I'm frequently sarcastic and have a twisted sense of humor. I consider myself to be a respectful, well-rounded/adjusted adult, despite the last year or so being pretty rough. ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? Long Version (For anyone who can't sleep) ? Usually, I don't feel strongly about most things (in and out of the bedroom). I may say that I like/dislike something, but usually I can take it or leave it. Usually, it's all about the context/execution, and not about the thing itself. ? First, and perhaps most relevant in this community: I dislike pain. I dislike it in the sense that I will try to avoid it because I don't find it pleasurable (biting, scratching, etc. excluded). The sometimes-confusing corollary to this is that I enjoy it as an "or else". If given the option between "Do 'x' or else", I'll usually do 'x' (save my rare super-masochistic moods). I can be shy or reluctant at times and this "threat", however subtly wielded, serves as an encouragement to expand my boundaries. I like that. ? I'm not looking for any sort of permanent markings, piercings, or things of that nature. I'm also not sure if I'm comfortable with doing much in public (covert teasing or something in a public place would be OK). I guess you could say I'm still "in the closet" when it comes to BDSM. ? Finally, as much as I love dominant women in the bedroom, I tend to be very impulsive - an overly-attached, controlling relationship tends not to work so well. At the same time, I enjoy the thought of a "24/7" lifestyle. Perhaps it's about how one attempts to control me, or maybe it's just an issue I need to work out. ?
Now on to the "likes/wants" items. ? First, I'm not entirely certain what I'm looking for. Whatever happens, happens. It depends on the person, I guess. As it stands now, I prefer to keep the D/s thing mostly in the bedroom, unless the right person came along and it happened to work. I'm not opposed to a long-term relationship, but I'm not getting my hopes up. Trust is super-important to me, and I have a hard time trusting someone who is constantly controlling, demeaning, etc. ? To expand on the "controlling" thing above, I generally prefer a subtle approach. I'm more open to being controlled when it's in the context of a game, for a lack of a better term. Sometimes I like a direct, forceful approach. However, the passive-aggressive "Nothing's wrong. I'm fine." thing as a means of control doesn't sit well with me. I don't know if this makes sense or not. ? To name my favorite kink, it'd definitely be teasing. I LOVE being teased. I love the idea of orgasm denial, but none of my prior relationships would actually hold out. Earmark that for later exploration. ? This is going on and on, so a quick list of other likes/interests includes: Bondage (completely immobilized/helpless), giving oral, and being made to be completely submissive. It's the end that matters, not so much the means to that end. ? ? Outside of the BDSM stuff, I have a lot of interests, many of which lean towards the geeky side. I always have to know "why" or "how", and that drives a lot of people crazy. ? Anyway, I'm always up to chat or meet new people, even if it leads to "just friends" or even nothing more than someone to occasionally BS with. I have pictures (somewhere), I just don't want them posted all over the internet. ? ?

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7/27/2012 3:46:09 AM

Note: Not interested in online/financial stuff. I'm not about to give my money away to a stranger on the internet, sorry.


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kissmeallover21
 
 Age: 21
 Kuala lumpur, Malaysia