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vaynthe

Sept 10/15: oh hey, we all lives again!!!! I probably won't check this much, I'm happily in a relationship. You can message to chat, but that's about all that's gonna happen. I've left all my previous stuff below mostly cause it's awesome and a look into who I am. What we have is different. Different from what many expect, we've reached a higher state of relationship by skipping the "norm" of what people think a D/s relationship should be. I am who I am, I have been accepted as I am. We are beyond nitpicking, beyond micro-managing, we just "are", and we are comfortable. If you wish to know more, feel free to message and ask. Oh ya, and I have long since graduated and working at an amazing job helping a lot of animals. 😊 May 11/13: Not currently looking for anything more than people to chat with. ? FYI, Yes, those are my barn swallows. They have since been released back to where they were rescued, and migrated with the rest of them.


?I'm in Torontoish area, usually also travelling 1 hr west(south west for you picky people :P ) on weekends and 30 min north on weekdays.
? So, I'm procrastinating...Surprise surprise...Anyways, so I'm not your typical Chinese Asian. I'm taller, I'm not stick skinny, I've got curves...But I'm still proportionate, even with a bit of winter weight/school stress weight(so I like to tell myself). I am still relatively inexperienced when it comes to this, but I am tired of finding guys who know what I want from them(guys who I've told that I'm submissive), and are unable to deliver. It frustrates me. I am looking for something possibly long term. I want to learn, I want to explore. I want to discover more about myself and I want to find someone I trust and respect to push my limits. I don't want one nighters because I don't believe that the depth I wish to achieve can be accomplished without the basic trust and respect.

I will admit that I am busy with school and such, and there may be weeks where I will be MIA(take this week for example, 4 tests, 2 quizzes, plus kennel duty). Oh, in case you're wondering about the kennel duty, I'm going back to school for a vet tech program.
For the ones looking to be more than just friends, I do have an age limit, it's mostly just my own comfort. 40+ is pushing my limit, so that will probably be more of a friends zone area. There may be exceptions, but it would be a very select few. 50+ is definitely friend zone area.

Oh, and please make an attempt to talk to me before friending me. It'll just get declined otherwise. I do try to read all the mails and respond to most. Ones with "Hey slut" or "rawr! You shall submit to me! Why? Did you not see my pic? Did you not hear me roar? You will submit to me and be my slave because I think I look hot in my imaginary world and all women will bow down to me!" will probably get ignored. Sorry. But otherwise, I do try to respond, though I know a few have slipped down the drain and I apologize as my inbox is a bit swamped and I probably can't find your mail again. Sorry :(

Different things can pique my interest. Being eloquent and fluent in actual English is a good start. Sending me pictures of your dick, not so good, and you will probably get ignored. I like a good head on shoulders, anything else is just bonus and totally awesome.
I think I shall leave it that this for now.......
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5/13/2012 11:38:27 AM

lol I don't normally do stuff like this. But this was too funny not to share.

Him:Well I speak english and would like to talk to sane minds.

Me: Where's the fun in sane?

Him:Guess I have had enough of messed up asian women...good bye.

Me: Cya!

Him: Yeah im bring ing in my Japanese gf from vancouver,way hotter than you...cya,reality check dumbass and you still have nothing.Pure genius!CYA

Me:

 

How in the world are you 45? You can't take a joke about sanity, you must attract some really weird ones. And you have to dive low to insults? My dear, you seem to have much growing up to do if one little joke and send you off the deep end.

 

But anyways, I wish you the best of luck with this hot Japanese gf you speak of.

And trust me, I'd rather have nothing, than to be with someone who can't joke around and have fun. You have to live life and have fun doing it, cause we're all going to die at some point anyways. Lighten up a bit, and you might enjoy yourself more.

 

I hope you keep that temper of yours in check for your hot gf. There's a fine line between dominance and abuse. I hope whoever you end up with can see that.

Good luck! ^_^

 


*proceed to block*

 

I don't know, this just made me giggle. People take life too seriously.

amak
 
 Age: 19
 Somewhere, Canada