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Coming from MA I have a very forward attitude compared to other people here (at least that's what I've been told) and I tend to say it like it is. I don't bullshit and I tend to speak my mind, unless otherwise told ;)
I have come to the realization (finally, took me long enough) that there is no fun/fulfillment in submitting myself to someone just for the name sake of doing so. If you are looking for someone just too msg a few times and then have them come over and do as you please, you can move on. I will get to know you as a person first and foremost. Now this doesn't mean we need to have only online interaction. In fact I'd rather meet with you get to know you in person! Lets talk over coffee or something… The amount you can learn over one cup of joe can save months of inevitably useless messages!
I am a very open person to most people (so ask me anything), but I'm also very private to the people I care about in my current life.
Recently I have been able to do a lot of play with Rope Bondage. I've entirely been the one getting tied and half the time I have had a blindfold on, so don't expect me to know how to do any knots. I have also been able to dabble in partial restraint. ie: being restraind for a period of time but still able to move around with more OR less difficulty depending on the situation.
Next up on my list is more constrictive restraint! Whether that means spread out and tied of to different things, or curled up, is up for you to decide. It all really depends on what you're looking to do once I'm restrained...
The list on the side truly reflects things that I HAVE tried and that I know I can enjoy/endure, things that I know I am curious about, and lastly things that I know I Dislike, Hate, or WILL NOT DO. If there are items not on these lists, bring them up. I love trying new things.
I'm not looking for a sadist that just wants to beat on me. But that said, I apparently have been found an interest in getting spanked into bruising... I may remember you fondly for the next day or so each time I sit down, until we see each other again.
11/7/2011 6:25:03 PM

Recently I have been very blessed with being able to submit to a wonderful woman.  She has opened my eyes to many new things and through her I have also learned many things about myself that I may not have had a full grasp on before.

I now 100% know I LOVE rope bondage.  But I want to start playing in other things as well.  I am still unsure of what I am looking form this lifestyle/scene/hobby what ever you may want to call it.  If I found a girlfriend that was into this and I truly felt as though she would like it if I submitted myself to her, I would!  I know I never want to visit a Pro dome,  and I would prefer to avoid just one-nite stand like instances as well.

Something I just changed in my profile is that I am now also interested in more constrictive bondage. Strip me of all my coverings and then have me in a cage... Bind me up in a ball.  Lay me out flat on the bed face up or down and tie all four limbs to the posts...  I also love the idea of restrictive bondage that allows me to be very mobile and do as I am asked to, but not really be able to have any say in it even if I wanted to.

I have taken a great liking to nipple clamps, especially ones with a chain attached to them, or even better yet add incremental weights to that chain.  Let me choose between more weight or something else devious.

I really don't like pain!  When in the act itself of submitting you will find it hard pressed to get me to ask to receive a spanking or anything like that.  I will do everything within my power to make you (and as a result me/us) happy.  About a year ago I thought it would be fun to go over someones house and run about and purposefully do something wrong, just to receive a punishment.  But now I don't want to let someone down and if you feel I deserve a punishment I probably do, and I fear for that.

I truly want to MEET more people into this stuff.

Blindedlove31
 
 Age: 30
 Hungary