Vargus

Male Dominant, 55, SASK.

The First Words:   What were the first words someone said to you that later on resulted in a happy long-term relationship?   For some maybe it was a simple, hi or hello, but sometimes it might be something totally unexpected and maybe not so nice.   A long time ago I read about a Dom whose first words to his sub weren't so nice.   He was in college and lived in a dorm with a roommate. One day the roommate decided to help him look for the perfect sub, but without his knowledge. The roommate made up a profile for him and posted it on a BDSM dating site.   The young Dom didn't find out about this till later on when he was working on his computer. Anyway he blew his top and got into an argument with his roommate. The young Dom didn't think he needed any help at all when it came to finding a sub. Meanwhile as the heated argument continued, the profile got a hit from a young sub.       " Hello sir "    " Hello sir "      " Hello sir "        The young Dom finally noticed the message on his computer screen and angrily wrote back.    " WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT?"  The young sub woman was a little startled by his first words, but luckily for the stupid Dom it didn't scare her off.     They have now been together for eight years and counting.  KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT!    Knowing what you want is the first step   towards actually finding it.    What is the first thing that I want?    I want to find the guy who wrote the    profile for the Dom above, so he can write    mine. His profile worked rather well, while    mine seems to attract a lot of what I don't   want.                                    We all need to have a sense of purpose and a sense of  meaning and belonging to be truly happy.   So I'm here on CM for the purpose of joy both to give and to receive it. I live to create, love, laughter, joy and bliss. That is my mission.         Each of us is on our own unique jouney into the world of BDSM.For some of us the journey started early in childhood. I remember doing drawings of women in bondage and torture scenes when I was 9.                                        I like to flirt and laugh and get to know someone. When it comes to making friends.  I'm seeking contact with respectful,open-minded people, who like myself have an interest and love for BDSM.        I'm single       I don't smoke.  I don't do drugs and I rarely drink and when I do it's never to access,but I'm totally addicted to fun and laughter.   I have a very keen wit and sense of humor.   I draw,read,write and sometimes photograph.   I'm not a very big sports fan.   I like movies,documentaries,and cartoons.   I'm a country guy; I live a country life.     I like pets    I love women   I love erotic dancers and Belly Dancers are favorites.  I prefer healthy strong,attractive,intelligent women,but any woman that can make me laugh is a treasure and a beauty. I like a woman who is creative, imaginative, fun, full of wit and charm. Someone who loves to laugh and tease. They should also be kinky as hell with a dire need for bondage.  When it comes to BDSM play.Female Bondage is what turns me on the most.       It usually takes a long time,but it's worth the trouble. The only power I have over you is the power your willing to give me.

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