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Vapetseeker

Male Submissive, 50, Virginia Beach, Virginia
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Vapetseeker - Male Dominant, Roanoke Virginia | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About Vapetseeker

I'm a busy guy, I'm not a socialite, I dont do the bar/club scene and so I'm not much on dating, so I've been single for a good portion of my life. What it means for me now is that I want someone to come home too. It may become something of a relationship, or a mutual understanding that at least looks like a dating relationship to those outside. But thats not what I'm really looking for.

I want someone who is domestic, meaning a girl to take care of the homestead when I'm away. I dont need to go into detail - its pretty self explainatory.

What does need some explaination is what I want when I get home. I'm tired of vanilla relationships, I want something more intense, diverse, kinky and rough. I'm aggressive and I crave physical dominance, not just mental and emotional, but I like to Push, Slap, Choke, Bite. I like to degrade and humiliate, and for me personally nothing says that better than having a rim-job or my feet licked clean after a full day at work, before a shower and a smile of satisfacation from the one who gave it.

I want to be surrendered to, completely. You give yourself to me, take a collar and acknowledge I'm your superior and Dom, then you give yourself to Me utterly. It also means you'll be protected, cared for, fed, if I deem it, clothed, washed. I'll give you the tools you need to maintain hygiene, grooming, personal fitness, etc.

I do have a basic principal that doesnt change. Subs and Slaves.

I'm also disease free, I wont consider you if you arent, be aware of that. I drink rarely and as for smoking, I'm interested in pipe tabacco and hookahs - but neither of which are a daily standard for me.

I get my 'high' from sexual perversion - unleashing the animal within with a mate. I'm in alot of ways, similiar to a tiger. I'm observant, quiet and I skulk. But if I truly want someone, or if I want to do something then I uncoil and pounce and life with me is much the same way. When I have someone who is attached to me, understand that I consider you my property, to be used, enjoyed and abused however and whenever I want.

You should know what if you begin speaking to me, I will expect a few things from you. A picture, possibly another way of reaching you. I will expect you to move to me, if you're far outside my present area. If you are a sub or slave of mind, you must tell me, so I can think appropriately for what I want from you. Apperances are extremely important. You will be conditioned, expected to maintain weight and size. If you are overweight, lose it before bothering me. If you have limits, tell me upfront, I'll consider it. If I feel your limitations are too high for me, I'll let you know and dismiss it. If you choose to drop your own limitations, to see where it should go, understand I -will- force those former limitations upon you and see how you handle it then. Personal hygene is important. You will be expected to remain hairless on your body, below your face and scalp. You may go days, even weeks, without a bath if I should want you to stay filthy, humiliated, but that will yet to be seen. If you have other questions, simply ask. Until you've actually knelt at my feet, had a collar placed on your neck and I know you've submitted, I still consider you to be as any other person online. You're free to ask me questions, inquire and discuss. Take the time you need and get your information now. If you are a submissive--I may allow you to talk to me normally. Infact, I may desire that, to have some kind of interaction. If you are a slave, then you have no voice, if you speak without being asked a question first, you will be punished. So ask now, or forever hold your tongue.

This was originally written as an explaination to another user for what I would to do her, if I had 24 hours witih her. I decided I would keep it, as it was lengthy and put it on my journal, so others can better understand my kind of personality. This is simply a day in service to me and by no means a direct replication of routine. While some things may be a routine behaviour, others may not.

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The day begins early, I would awaken at about 5am, pull back my covers and rise. I would see you where you were left, on your knees, arms bound behind your back, ankles bound, both linked. You would have been sleep deprived, watching as I slept and you were ordered to not move. If you were obedient and remained as I had left you, no lashings would come. If you had moved, laid on your side, or moved into a spot you deemed "more comfortable", you would feel the sting of leather against your bared skin. Then, you would be taken by the hair, made to stand, to follow me into the bathroom. A morning ritual--to have you kneel in the tub, keep your head tilted back, mouth open, eyes closed as the tip of my cock is placed just at the edge of your lips. And your mouth is filled with morning piss. I dont demand you swallow it, but it fills your mouth like a cup, till it overflows. If you did disobey me and not stay in place, you may be required to swallow. Your reward for being obedient, not only for not being lashed, is to spit it out. You are expected to wait, as I leave and return, drawing a shower. Your restraints undone, your task is to bath me. Occasionally you would be touched, caressed, a nipple twisted, your clit rubbed against. Every touch is to be returned with a 'thank you', from yourself. Lack of doing so, results in a slap. Progressively harder the more times it has to be done.

Once the shower is finished, I put your domestic skills to the test. You are to dry off and fix me breakfast, you would know what I like, or I would tell you for the day how I feel. You are not to wear clothes, but i'm sure you would know that. You are not to wear an apron--even if bacon should splash off and strike your skin. You are to endure the pain. I want your body to be visible to me at all times, unless we are out of my space. As I dress, you set my place for breakfast, everything set in specific order. Again, anything out of place, results in a lashing--and another punishment somewhere else. You have been sleep deprived, you will be made to sit and watch me eat. If I should feel you are deserving of a taste of what you made for me, I will consider giving you what I dont eat. If I dont, that is simply My choice, and you will accept it. Today is to be a day of torture, physically and psychologically.

Once breakfast has finished, I would wait for you to clean the place, wipe everything down, wash and set all dishes and cooking ware back to its proper place. Upon your return, I would have you kneel to my feet, to massage and nourish them with your lips and tongue.

This is only the first couple of hours.

In the afternoon--as I am doing what I tend to do. Online site hopping, I would have you kneeling by my feet, ready to serve out a purpose. Be it retrieval of food from the kitchen, or to have you simply pleasure my cock as I look at porn. You would not be allowed to swallow--but instead. Have a bowl to receive my cum into. You would receive it by your mouth, then spit it back out, placing the bowl back to the side. I would expect you to say thank you for the pleasure of sucking on your owners cock, it is your privledge and greatest desire to be of service.

Mid-day. I would take into consideration all that has been done, how you have acted and served out your Master. If I am pleased, the whippings you receive will be minimal--but you still receive them. I like to see girls cry, whimper in pain, I want to see your body twitch and clinch. To see your skin flare red with pain. If you have displeased me, at all, it will be much harder.

Lunch time--you would be expected to fix me lunch. Again, set my place, watch as I eat, possibly have a scrap. Deprived if not.

Afternoon. I would take a walk, leaving you kneeling in place, with another bowl under you. You would be instructed to remain in a position, await my return. If you had to relieve yourself, the bowl is there to accept. You are not to clean yourself afterwards, nor are you to touch yourself if you find arousal. Upon my return, I would evaulate your position. Again as the morning time. If you had done as told, you would be rewarded with no punishement. If you failed, you would know I was displeased.

Dinner time - I would allow you to eat a piece of fruit. Depending on how you had pleased or displeased me during the course of the day. You would thank me for the generousity. Failure would result in it being taken away from you. And punishements.

In the evening. I would fuck you senslessly. Your body deprived of sleep and mostly nourishment, you would be weak and dazed, your body numb from the various beatings you had received through the day. But every orafice would be violated, until I came--again, into the bowel, that had been sitting in the open for all those hours, my cum still there. I would watch as you mix them together and drink the bowl's contents down. Thanking me for the pleasure of having my cum. Your honour and privledge. Failure would result in punishment. Harsh punishement.

In the end of the day, you would be evaulated again for your services. If I felt pleased, I may allow you to sleep on the floor next to the bed. If I am unpleased, you would be expected to remain in position again. Until the next day--in which I would decide if I let you sleep while I work. Or until you pass out from exhaustion. Which results in punishement.

 

So, with a 24 hour breakdown of what a normal day in the life of servitude to Me would be like. Do you believe you could handle that?

To explain abit on myself, give more of an about me.

I'm 26 years old, single, never married, no childern. I work as a manager for a nationwide resturant/retail fuel center. I'm not going to say the name for privacy and discretion reasons.

Because of my job position and daily work habits, I deal with alot of shit, to be simple. It conflicts with my own personality, as I am a forward, direct and dominant figure but I have to smile and be humble to the customers.

This is why I seek a submissive/slave who will offer herself to my feet upon my return home. For explicit sexual purposes and aggressive ones. I dont believe in domestic home abuse when its undesired. But in a D/s or Owner/slave relationship, I do believe in anything I want.

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I'm a normal guy in that I have my own hobbies, interests that arent purely sexually focused. I enjoy literature, movies, various musical artists (some of which surprise those I know), gaming and the normal spending time with family and friends. But I'm also a person who spends alot of his time alone, quiet, doing his own thing. I desire a sub/slave to be ready at my feet at a moments notice, to serve out any desire I may have. And as I've said before, I do reward. I also punish.

I'm very much a sadist, I love to see girls cry, hear the sound of leather smacking skin, watching skin blister and redden with caning rods against soft, bare flesh. However, up until now, I've yet to find a receptient for my desires.

I am also picky, I will not just take in anyone. I have physical attraction needs--I am attracted to slender, petite framed women. Average for height, is negoitable. However, understand, that if you take a position under My control. I will rule you. I will control your body weight index, either through starvation or exercise requirements. I will weigh you periodically and either reward or punish you upon the results.

I will expect you to thank me when I do something for you, or allow you to do something for yourself. You are not your own person in slavery, you are less. I may not be an experienced Dom as some, but I am by no means, unable to handle my desires and I know how to control others.

I'll continue to update this as I go, edit things out as I think about how I have said it. But all you need to do now, is if you think you can handle a role in My possession, message me. I will respond, but I may not accept you just because of a cute face and a slutty attitude. You have to truly sell yourself to me. And I'm in retail--be prepared to prove you want it.

Also..as for relocation. I am -not- moving to you. My career has me where I'm at, in the future, that may change, as of now, it is not. If you desire ownership, then you will come to -me-. I will help you, either by plane or roadtrip expenses. And you will graciously thank me for my generiosity as well. Keep that in mind, however, relocation is possible. For you to me.
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