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Female Submissive, 43, Salinas, California
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Female Switch, 36
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Female Switch, 41, Tacoma, Washington
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About VanillaAnd
I am a single 46 year old (most people think Im about 36) 58 with longer dark blonde hair and blue eyes. I am DD free. I workout 4-5 days a week.
In my vanilla life, I tend to be the person people go to for guidance, strength, and encouragement. I have spent my adult life being that go to person and am comfortable with my vanilla life. That being said, I am more than vanilla... I am a strong submissive.
I have spent the last few years evaluating my wants and needs. I truly believe insapiosexuality. I would like to start slowly and get to know each other in order to grow a relationship of mutual trust and respect. Someone who is deserving of my submission. A good communicator who will be consistent. He needs to be confident and comfortable in the role. Once a man starts to lose my trust or respect its a battle of wills. I am not looking to do battle. Things could getdangerous quickly and that is not what Im seeking. I have met too many men who initially appear to have an alpha personality but turn out to be little boys hiding behind false bravado! I know who I am and what it takes to earn my trust, respect and submission. I dont give second chances and once my trust is lost it is lost forever! That would be your loss.If you make implications or insinuations to mislead me I will find out. If your intentions are less than honest dont waste my time . Also, if you get offended by direct questions, dont bother messaging me. I dont sugar coat my questions.
Photos will only be shared privately. I am not interested in phone sex, online escapades or casual play partners. Additionally, I am not interested in being involved with a married man or men under 35 and I do not accept friend requests.
I am not interested in hooking up. If I were, there are plenty of people I already know who would be happy to oblige. In other words, dont waste your time. Its not happening. Also, I am not interested in having a relationship which exists primarily through online, text and phone. |
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