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The contradictions of me

Being in a strange situation, I've had a lot of time to think. On what I'm looking for, what I need (or think I need). Most of this will be rambles, some of this will change. But I might as well put it down for now so I can look back and then continue to look forward.

• I'd like a Daddy. He should probably be strict, even though it might be nice once in awhile to get my way.
• I want to be able to have an opinion (and have it heard) but I don't want to have to make all the decisions. Those are hard.
• I'd like lots of attention. But I also need time to myself.
• I have to be able to trust Him. If I can't follow where He leads how am I supposed to get where I'm going?
• Play is always nice, but it's not as important as love.
• Yes I want marriage and kids. One big kinky happy family.
• I will fully admit, I'm going to push any line You draw. If You can stand firm, I'll respect You more and follow Your lead anywhere.

I can already tell You I'm going to be a lot of work. I just hope that before the end we'll both know it was worth it. This is my note to You, wherever and whoever You are.

Be warned I am an Aries, through and through!

Aries are fire signs and those born under this element are regarded in astrology as adventurous, active and outgoing. It won't matter where you go or how remote or unusual it is - from the Outback to the Antarctic - you can be sure that an Aries has been there before you (or at the very least you will meet one along the way!) Aries is a uniquely naive sign. Although they are independent, outgoing and assertive they are also surprisingly trusting, often innocently walking into the lion's den at times. No matter what upheaval, challenge or triumph they confront - an Aries has a wonderful ability to bounce back. Their faith in life and the future remains untouched by hardship. Their gift is that they are always children at heart and the world is always a magical place for them. Many famous sports people are born under this sign. Aries is regarded as the most physical sign and because of its Mar's rulership; it is also one of the most highly charged masculine energy signs in astrology. No wonder women born under Aries are forceful, dynamic and aggressive, and as a result these Aries women frequently find themselves with dilemmas surrounding their romantic relationships. For them, a man has to be a 'real man' to deal with an Aries woman, otherwise she intimidates him. And conversely for the Aries male, a woman has to be a real woman to deal with him, because he is looking for many balancing component traits (his true feminine side) in his partner. She has to run the gamut in his support system, from the Aries man's best friend, true companion, through to his muse, and yet she must never ever answer him back!

Therefore Aries can be a confusing sign because there is a complex combination of very strong masculine and feminine expressions all combined together. Because of the male energy surrounding it, when a woman is born under Aries, it creates some of the most interesting women in the world, women who are adventurous, independent and have competitive natures. It also tends to make them very forthright.

But whether male or female, Aries people are 'doers' rather than 'talkers'. They are the impulsive, act first, ask questions or have doubts later, sign of the zodiac. That's why their lives are often filled with many dramas and sometimes even accidents! Their ability to live life close to the edge provides them with a wealth of 'real experience' to call upon. When an Aries person talks about something or somewhere they've usually done it or been there, rather than simply read about it in a book. Being active people Aries can't adapt to any kind of restriction, particularly possessive relationships. They often travel to escape any feelings of being stuck or possessed. Aries people love challenges. In fact, if everything is running smoothly, they are quite capable of going out and doing something (sometimes quite foolish) to rock the boat. Aries love to race in where angels fear to tread.

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