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About vainamoinen
There isn't any sexy talk here, sorry.
I agree with Hagbard Celine on the principle that when we put people in boxes, we negate 99% of who they are. "Oh, he's a lawyer," we say, and that person becomes A Lawyer to us from then on. The same thing applies to D/s. My submission is not your submission, his dominance is not her dominance. The term for words like these is 'schema'. Schemas are there to assist us, to make it possible for us to function in a world where we are assaulted by information and input every minute of every day. Schemas are there to help us, not the other way around. If we are conforming to the words, instead of making words that conform to our ideas, we don't grow.
That being said, I'm interested in meeting and talking with other people who consider themselves part of the scene, and not necessarily for the purposes of play, or hopes of a relationship. I just like to talk, too. Friends are good. Sharing information- especially in this community- seems important to me.
So, yes, if you'd like to talk, drop me a line. I live in Milwaukee, and am not averse to going for coffee or a pint.
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