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It is women who love horror. Gloat over it. Feed on it. Are nourished by it. Shudder and cling and cry out-and come back for more." -Bela Lugosi One of my favorite quotes. Just a regular girl looking for that extra something in a relationship. I for some reason have little experience in the relationship world. I am not the tall model , rail thin chick that always gets noticed, am a short chubby girl that gets looked over. I don't think of myself as unattractive by no means and I have a great personality. I am just tired of being the "friend". I feel joy in taking care of those I care about, but sometimes if feels empty.....I want to be taken care of. I love control and I tend to be very bossy ( it is sometimes very exhausting). I want to let go of my control and have someone else take over for a change, for the right Dom I will give my all. I am not looking for 24/7. I am more into the bedroom (ie. sexual) D/s that leaks a little into the vanilla. Yes I am looking for a possible long term relationship, but making friends is always good. I am not getting any younger by the way and I know I look a lot younger than how old I really am. I love video games, sci-fi (LOVE STAR WARS), reading, cooking,my family, and my dog. I have always been interested in BDSM world, but am scared and curious. I found this site and bit the bullet and joined to learn more. Sorry ladies I am only into men. I have been on here for a few weeks now and have met so many nice Doms who were nice enough to chat with me......I thank them for their time to answer all my questions I have. Then I have also met Doms who are charming and willing to play and even demanding that I submit to them and then become THE most un- genuine a-holes. Please please I beg all Doms who contact me to be up front with me. If you feel that things are not going good between us just say so. Don't ask me to be your sub or whatever and then ignore me completely when you change your mind. I will understand and deal with it I am a big girl, I can take it better if you explain why or why not. NO I WILL NOT BUY STUFF OR GIVE YOU MONEY!! I have been hurt three time already and I don't like it. Thank you Valerie