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| I have been in the lifestyle for some time now and have enjoyed the servitude of a wonderful Lady. She has moved on now and so the search begins anew. I would like to develop a long term relationship rather than a casual one. I find that one night stands are just not what floats my boat. Oh the sex is great but without a real emotional connection it is just that, a one night stand. What I am looking for is a relationship that is vanallia to the outside world and sub/dom or slave/master in the home. I am single, employed and D&D free, however I am a smoker so if that is a turn off pass me by or better yet give me a reason to quit again ;) I believe in honesty as it begets trust and communication. With those three traits a relationship can not help but blossum and grow. Some of the things I enjoy are walking, reading, online strategy games, card games, history, my dad (whom I DO NOT live with LOL) my children (19 and 25 year old boys, neither of which lives with me) listening to music and travel. I don't travel to spend time in a fancy hotel or lay around on the beach, I travel to see new places, things and people. I like to go to the mall and just sit and watch people walk by. I find observing life to be more amusing than just about any television show that has ever aired. Try it sometime, I'm sure you will be amused. I enjoy reading about new scientific and tech discoveries and am a huge fan of Sci-fi. I would rather read a well written, or not so well written book, than watch tv. In a book there is time for character and plot development where on tv and the movies they have to get to the point rather quickly. Has anyone seen the movie Battlefield Earth? Prety lame movie but the book? I have read it at least 10 times and continue to go back to it about once a year. BTW this is about the only work by L. Ron Hubbard that I like, try reading his invasion earth series, all 10 books. I DARE you to get thru them all...I did but it was pure torture that only my stubborness allowed me to read them all, and yes I didn't put the title in caps on purpose they were that bad LOL. My love for history I atribute to my Great Grandfather. He started me on coin collecting in 1964 but would require me to look up historical facts that happened in the year of the coin he was giving me. I wore out a set of World Book's but was hooked. Thanks Gramps, he was a great man but an even greater cheat at rummie :P My musical interests run from classical to classic rock and roll. I am begining to listen to a little country, I like the one about "my dog up and got run over by an 18 wheeler and puked up a squirrel and now we are having meat in our soup tonight". I dislike most christian music and it would take a gun held to my head to even have a chance of me listening to rap. Is rap even a musical style or just an excuse/reason to see just how many profane words can be uttered in three minutes or so?
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You know I have viewed quite a few Ladies profiles here on CM and one thing that stands out, at least to me, is the way the so called men on here approach them. Guys do you really think it makes you a dominant to call women foul or profane names with your first contact? Would you walk up to a woman you have never met in a bar and tell her to drop to her knees and suck you off? Why do men seem to think that behavior is acceptable here? The basis for this type of relationship, in my humble opinion, are even deeper than in any vanillia one. Total power exchange, submission, slave, whatever you want to call it all require one thing more than any other, that is TOTAL trust between both parties. You can hardly expect to begin that movement toward trust with an insulting opening. It is no wonder, to me anyways, that the women on this site are labeled "jaded". Tell me you wouldn't also be "jaded" if you were treated like that by the majority of the people trying to make contact with you. All you idiots are doing is making it harder on yourself and us. Yes I called you idiots, grow up already. A person, male or female, that is a submissive or slave is still a Lady or Gentleman and they deserve to be treated as such unless THEY request otherwise. That decision is not yours to make. I pity the fools on here that demand instant respect, devotion and submission, those are things of true and lasting value that have to be earned and can never demanded. Respect, understand, forgiveness, trust, honesty, communication, the willingness and ability to train and being able to motivate with words or a look alone are in my opinion what makes a true dom/master. This does not mean that I abhor or shy away from corporal punishment if needed, but why would you allow it to get to that point. Spankings, whips, crops, paddles should be used in extreme cases, however they have been used by me, but mostly as a reward not as a punishment. This concludes my rant for today. I highly doubt the so called doms on this site that could benefit from reading this will do so, and for the ones that already get it, Congrats! Now back to your regularly scheduled program. |
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| Age: 21 |
| Hawthorn,
Ohio |
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