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uwillregretme

Through my travels in the world of kink I've found that ephemeral connections are easy to come by. Finding someone who shares some certain kinks with you is harder, but not totally uncommon. However meeting someone who has that shared vision of what they're after, and what they value is rare. I'm a very cerebral person, so maybe I overthink things. What am I after?
I want to get to know you better. I want to learn what drives you to be the slut you so desperately yearn to be. I want to harness that power, and use it to become your master. I want to delve into your mind and see what makes you tick, and then play on your hidden fears. I want to control you, and own your body in a way that can only be done by one who also controls the mind. I want to do this all, and enjoy the process of it knowing I'm satisfying your inner need to be subservient. I want to make you my house pet, my sex toy, and my friend.

If you message me I WILL message you back.

8/17/2016 5:48:27 PM
I hate being a ranter. I prefer to try and change the way things are by being a certain way. Leading by example as it may be. But for a moment I'll have to suspend my disdain for this, and join so many others on the soapbox.

Why is it that after speaking with someone, actually taking the time to get to know them and going through all the motions;Being polite, respecting limits and boundaries. Incorporating personal likes and fetishes; Why is it that after all of this I seem to find myself constantly simply ignored by those who claim to be so desperately seeking what I offer? I feel as though in this internet world it is too easy to abandon propriety, and rather than taking the time to simply say "I'm sorry Sir, it isn't working." or "It turns out I don't want what I said I did." or even anything else, the standard thing is to just cut and run.

I feel jaded at having been used by so many subs to explore their fetishes and limits, learn about themselves in a safe and respectful way (by respectful I don't mean never calling them a whore, I mean abiding their boundaries), and then when it comes time for something in return they decide they can no longer proceed. These "selfish subs" are currently the bane of my existence.

I will continue to do my best and avoid being abusive straight away, trying to be a good mentor and providing safe aftercare. But at the moment, I sort of just feel like whipping one of you "selfish subs" into a writhing crying ball of welts.

My sincerest apologies for joining in the ranting. Time to try to find someone patient and earnest yet again....

2/28/2016 4:26:42 PM
I am currently feeling frustrated by superfluous connections. I've met many people in many ways, plenty of whom claim to be after what I have clearly stated I am. Yet all back out when things start to get real. While I am open to an online/distance thing, for me that entails eventually being able to exchange photos.

Maybe I need to elaborate. I am real. I am a Dom. I am also a human man, with other regular interests. I will not be a creep to you immediately. I will try and connect with you before engaging in any sort of play. I am respectful of boundaries and limits. I am direct, and say what I mean. I do not play games.

All that being said, if you consent to playing with me, I will hurt you and smile while I do it. I will earn your respect and submission, and become the person you crave to please. And I will push you. I will make you feel vulnerable, afraid, nervous...free, satisfied, and at peace.
MistressVenus81
 
 Age: 26
 Crestview, Florida