Just have to tell you what amazes me the most here .... you men all seem to complain about the fake and wannabe women, but over the past few months I've noticed that you men are more amazing then the women. Most of the men I have encountered seem to be players and liars.
I find that in ANY relationship (and especially one of this nature) honesty and openness are the keys to having it work. It just seems to get more difficult to trust the next one that comes along.