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Male Dominant, 52, Provo but travels, Utah
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Male Submissive, 59
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About UtahToeGuy
Well lets see.... The name, UtahToeGuy. I live in Utah, I love women’s toes and I'm a guy. What’s in a name...? Apparently a lot. When I first started the journey of being in the "open" about it, I was pretty much just that, a fetishist. The name fit at the time. I have grown with the help of friends in the local community and want so much more now. There's no need to get hung up on this because you aren't "into" this particular fetish. Just like you, I have other interests, spanking, flogging, spanking, etc. Check my list :P
I'm currently looking for bi live-in submissive or slave. There will be some BDSM activities at home and play parties I will take you to. I’m not into scat play but if you are that's ok, just don’t expect me to eat it. I do have a foot fetish (toes to be more specific) and may sometimes require you to submit them to me for my pleasure. I will need to see yours before accepting you. I know, you probably think its odd that I do not want you to send naked photos instead lol.
Mostly you will be domestic, serving me in mundane things such as doing laundry, preparing meals, watering my horses, house work, tend our vegetable garden, blacking my boots, etc. You should be physically fit enough to go camping, horseback riding, hiking, in the wilderness. I will train you in how I expect these things to be done. I am not your previous master so don’t assume I want things done the way he did. In my mind, there's things, when done in the context of M/s or D/s, constitute lifestyle BDSM. Lifestyle BDSM does not mean that we are "scening" 24/7. I will however expect submission 24/7, and even more so as our relationship and trust grows. We may form a connection right away but only the naive and fools would assume that a relationship and trust are formed right out of the box. And yes, I might just keep you in a box sometimes.
I notice a lot of “Masters” seem to think this is about me, me, me. To some degree it is but, it is about you too. I understand that slaves and submissives have a need to serve and please their master and I think that must be acknowledged and satisfied. So its not all me, me, me…. But a two way street.
I came to this D/s chapter of my life around November 2009. I have had few subs and a baby girl who was a “little”, but have never had a slave. So experience wise, yes, I have things to learn and may make mistakes.
I have spent 20+ years in the military and am used to training people, behavior modification, giving orders, following up on assigned duties and doling out consequences and rewards according to performance.
If you like degradation/humiliation, it is not one of the things I generally do. Don’t expect to be called names like stupid, ugly, worthless, etc. However I may call you my slut, bitch, slave, girl, etc., when in context with something we may be doing. There may be some humiliation involved by saying these things in the presence of other people but I derive no pleasure in making slaves or subs feel like a lower form of life (see the final sentence of profile). If you "require" this, we can negotiate some satisfactory compromise.
I have a job so I wont be around you 24/7. Initially, you will not have unsupervised access to the internet or cell phone. There is a possibility that you may have to deal with boredom from time to time. I may shackle you or impose some form of isolation, especially initially, so we know where we stand, or kneel, as the case may be.
I’m not some wealthy guy. I’m not going to send you money. I will provide for your shelter, some clothing that I like, food, security and well being. I don’t provide health care expenses. If you have lists of ailments, phobias, medications, etc., you need to disclose this in advance for discussion. You may have contact with your Parents, siblings, etc. unless you want me to restrict that. I’m not taking in children or cats.
Even though I am a dominant I am reserved about it. I don’t command attention when I go into a room as this doesn’t interest me. I have some humility about me in public. Don't confuse my manners with submissiveness. I usually treat everyone, even slaves, as equals, peers if you will, until I earn your command; until you are under my collar. I don’t think that diminishes my dominance in the least bit. I don’t think that being a master of a slave makes the master a better human being than the slave or vice versa, I just think that each are fulfilling their rightful place. |
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