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Male Dominant, 25, Cheshire

Male Submissive, 29, Ottawa

Female Submissive, 30, Chicago, Illinois

I have a challenge for the naturally dominant male trying to understand what makes women so flighty and guarded. Start a profile as a woman. Mention the tamest version of yourself, mirrored as your submissive counterpart. Wait. Read. Try as hard as you can to fight the overwhelming desire to come through the screen. Rinse and repeat.

I'm not a perfectionist. I hate to look stupid. So for whatever reason I felt it necessary to repost my introduction repeatedly until it worked. Now that it works, I'aka make the rest of it pretty when I get around to it.

I'm a new mother. I'm pretty protective over that, and the anonymity in my current lifestyle. I don't care if you love kids. Have your own.? I suppose I'm here because I'm aware of the things I've been introduced to thus-far that I love or hate. I've also discovered the things within me that are strengths vs weaknesses. Though my submissive heart saw it play out differently, my dominant mind is capable of rectifying these subtleties I struggle with. The fierce need for dominance (on either end of a relationship) and the unrelenting demand for self awareness within this life will always motivate me best. So I would like to meet non-psycho, like minded people seeking relationships surrounding the darker sides of life. I'd like to make connections with people I?can learn from as I shape myself into being what I see for myself because of the?absence of someone stronger than myself to submit to.? It sounds crazy, being the dominant and submissive within my own life. But my lack of self motivation really is my biggest weakness, stressor and source of impatience and anger. And if I cannot be capable of change for myself, by myself (even of it's significantly harder and feels disconnected at times) than I have less to offer the people in my life and I'm less likely to change for anyone else, under any circumstances. The end.

I don't know why I'm here. I do know that I'm not here for you. I'm here for me. I'm absolutely submissive in my heart. But I am absolutely strong, smart, motivated and pretty bold.? I'm married, faithfully, and will remain so. I'm not living any type of special lifestyle. The absence of the lifestyle in my married life doesn't bother me as much as it should. We tried. I tend to be more motivated and as a result less forgiving. I also hate that feeling you get when you have to explain every detail of something you want. It doesn't taste the same when you get around to it. Fortunately, I'm over that. I'm not here because that's a need I must have filled. Shockingly, I don't need you. I would love to talk to you.? I hate talking on the phone, though I'm prone to hour long phone calls every so often. I text obsessively. I'm full of randomness and double standards and a general late-to-realize-I've-made-a-mistake-and-aren't-always-right-ness. I always come around and apologize on my own, like an adult. Eventually. Even when I'm angry. I hate excuses. I hate when I discover someone who's life story is entirely someone elses fault. I'm 27 years old. I've been a shitty person. Shitty people have happened to me. If you can't acknowledge that as a person I cannot tolerate the 10 years of friendship it'll take for you to grow up. I hate wasting time... but I'm habitually late. I take the long way around almost every conversation. I take forever to tell a story. Its always "a long story." I get distracted easily. I get bored. I get caught up in little things. I live for these little things. I habitually take the long way home 12 times because I haven't played a song out yet. Scrabble and cards at ihop till the sun came up are some of my best memories. I am addicted to conversation. Day to day interaction and connection put that extra something in a day. I also have the bad habit of getting overwhelmed and then not keeping in touch, only to then feel guilty over not keeping in touch... to then stay away longer because I feel guilty. I always come back around and it always feels like no time has passed. This is on a long list of things I'd like to change about myself.? I like to drink, but I never have the time. I hate being drunk, but sometimes I find my way there. I hate drunks.? I smoke cigarettes. Mostly politely. It's decreased the amount of people I've envisioned punching in the dick. I hate when someone can't balance their habit enough to know when to go 12 hours without one, and when to enjoy lighting the next with the last. Nothing should have that much hold over you. Openly.? I smoke. I hate potheads. I get a sense of accomplishment out of actual accomplishment. If sitting on ass is the highlight of my day and not the reward after a string of hardworking days I should probably reevaluate my life.? ?

So when I wrote my introduction, I was pretty much sitting around procrastinating and daydreaming from my phone at work. I reached a poit where I could t read what I was talking about so I copied it all to edit it elsewhere. Apparently, my phone capps and combines word count past a certain point? So then there you are.... looking like an asshole. Who makes no sense. So, pasted all proper, hopefully this makes more sense:

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