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About use2
I suppose I am a dying breed. I believe that a dominant man is someone who others look to for leadership, guidance and direction.Someone who has his life in order, someone who has more wisdom than your average person, and employs it in his own life.
Physically, I probably intimidate people, as a 6'4, long haired warrior type although I don't believe in throwing my dominant energy around indiscriminately. Most would call me an Alpha male with great presence.
I believe in always telling the truth and I believe that a mans integrity is worth more than anything else he owns.I believe that whoever I own, should be able to count on me to provide security and guidance. Sexual dominance is just one small part of how I express myself..
I am married to a wonderful woman (MistressHonor). Our relationship defies pigeonholing. We are not kinky really, just terribly terribly old fashioned (although BDSM is something we both enjoy). I provide direction and protection, she provides energy, art and support. We are both over educated, over achievers. I hold several advanced degrees [none from on-line ‘universities’]. We have children, friends and jobs. D/s is just a part of our life and who we are.
I have had several jobs and activities that tied into my Dominant position in life. For example I have worked developing training programs for adults, as a police officer, as a therapist, as a disciplinarian in a locked facility, and as a sword play instructor, just to name a few.
I am looking for a slave. I expect that she will ultimately belong to me, but she must have a positive relationship with my wife. But really I am looking for synergy and a truly submissive heart, not just a sexually kinky girl who needs her butt whacked to feel like a slave.
I’ve never wanted a doormat. I have never had trouble finding a cute girl willing to hold still while I did ‘this or that’ to her during a wild weekend. Playing with a body is too easy, too transient. I am looking for someone who lets me handle who they are, who lets me mold their life.
That means I am looking for someone who wants to be more and do more with their life than just be a sex object. If that is the best you can aspire to, you will not be happy with me or us. I want someone who is intelligent, and who gives me the benefit of her opinions and insight. Even when you don’t want to. . Expect to grow and be more than you ever hoped for. Expect it to be real and expect it to be hard.
As far as kink, I have been in and out of being active in the real BDSM community for 10+ years, have spoken at local and national BDSM events [and I can provide references]. I know the ropes, and the whips and the chains, but those are just spice, the real substance of a D/s relationship is much more serious and much less flashy.
If you would like to correspond with me, please do not feel obligated to use any special terms of address with me. My ego is not so thin that I need them. And, like most things that really matter in life I prefer to earn it.
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I was recently discussing ownership with someone, and pointed out that I found dog ownership a good analogy for responsible owernship.?
I certainly own my dog, I can have it tatooed, bred, fixed or put to sleep.? I can keep? my dog chained up outside, or sleeping at the foot of my bed.
There are certain things I will require of any dog.? Like don't bite, me or mine, and to be effectively house broken.
But there are some things that it is wrong for me to expect of every dog.? Dobermans are lousy hunters, dachshunds are lousy guard dogs.? That does not make those breeds bad dogs.? It makes me responsible for picking a dog that meets my needs.
Beating my doberman will not make him a better hunter.? It will just make him an unhappy dog.
Not being right for me does not make someone 'not a slave'.? It just makes them not what I am looking for.
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