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I'm an older single submissive female living (happily) single in a small rural community with my beloved cat. While it would be nice to find a serious relationship, I'm not desparate, so let's start as friends and see what may happen. Tired of mean-spirited bullies using alleged dominance as an excuse for abuse and/or rudeness. I'm unwilling to become involved with a married man so please be honest. I'm a quiet sort of homebody, happiest when puttering around in my kitchen, though open to wild adventure in the bedroom. If you're a well-endowed sensual sadist, I'd love to hear from you.
While currently living in a rather horrid part of northwest Illinois, I grew up in Santa Barbara and would be especially interested in finding my way back to the West Coast. My kids are grown, my parents are gone, so it's time to find out what the next stage of my life holds.
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REALLY not looking any more. I'm pretty certain I've found my soul mate, best friend, the man who now owns my heart. |
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Taking a break from the dating scene. I've met someone special and want to see where it goes. For me, that means giving him my undivided attention. |
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Yes, life truly is funny. My handsome prince turned out to be just another frog, but this disappointment has given me the chance to reflect more on my desires and needs. While open to meeting friends, I think it's highly unlikely I'll meet anyone measuring up to my requirements.
I've been married twice and each relationship was a blessing, if a mixed one. The first time, I had a happy relationship with a truly wonderul man, who remains among my closest friends. From him I learned what should be and formed the highest standards, which few men measure up to. The second time was to an abusive psychotic who made my life a living hell. I've chosen to fully own the pain from this situation and use it to become a stronger person. From him I've gained the courage to face life alone as well as the perspective to recognize the many blessings I've received and my good fortune to be living as and where I do. I expect the cat and I will be together for a long, long time. |
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Life is funny. You think you know right where you are, have reasonable expectations, head through life on an even course. Then....BAM. As the late, great John Lennon said, "life is what happens when you're busy making other plans".
I recently reconnected with an old friend from a different site. One thing has lead to another and I find myself swept off my feet, head over heels in love. My beloved has invited me to dance into the sunset with him and I can think of no finer life.
i feel both humbled and blessed by this unexpected turn in life. |
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I've been thinking how much easier it is to state what I'm not interested in than what I'm actually looking for. So I though I'd give it a try.
Interested in someone close to my own age interested in a relationship as opposed to a one-night stand. Someone emotionally and financially secure. Someone not looking for arm candy but seeking a real life, life-sized mature woman.
Someone real: laugh lines showing a lifetime of living fully, laughing hard and often, as much at life's disappointments as it's triumphs.
Someone not only capable of enjoying the simpler pleasures in life but satisfied to do so. Someone less interested in fame and fortune than in happiness and the possibility of sharing a lifetime of finding it in unexpected places. |
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A recent trip into the 'burbs for medical purposes has reminded me how deeply I detest the Chicago metropolitan area. It's miles of congestion, frantic pace, and nearly total lack of natural beauty sap my soul and drain my spirit. Experience has taught that I am largely incompatible with those living in such an environment, so I am not seeking contact from urban dwellers. This includes those in the 'burbs as well as those who "love the country" but live the urban life. |
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I'm surprised that it's necessary to state the obvious, but it apparently is. If you're involved with someone, please don't bother conracting me. (This goes with those living part-time with another whether or not sex is involved). If you have undue emotional baggage, good luck in your journey, but I'm not interested in co-dependency or in a man who isn't in control of himself. I'm not looking for a meal ticket, but my partner must be capable of self support and willing to shoulder his share of joint expenses. I'm continually surprised that a man can reach middle age and still be living out of a suitcase. |
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I've had computer problems as of late and wish to make a blanket apology to those I've neglected to answer due to my technical problems. |
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Feeling disgusted/disappointed once again. I fail to see why anyone feels the need to lie about being involved with someone else, as if this won't be discovered. Also fail to see how inmtentional misrepresentation of facts with a view towards misleading can be considered any different than outright lying. I have neither time nor inclination for such BS. Life is too damn short. |
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