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Hello and welcome to my profile.

I have never submitted to anyone before in my life but I am looking for a Master where I can do just that. I see this growing into a long term relationship as I think it is important that we learn to understand one another and for the control to deepen.

I don't believe that submission is just about sex (although important of course). It is about the Master taking control and me obeying and accepting that there are consequences if i don't.

This doesn't make me a doormat though, where I blindly follow everything and anything you say. You will be interested in understanding what makes me tick, what effect different things have on me and how to play me to get the effect you want. Including putting me into Catch-22 situations and let me work out that there is no escape from the predicament i am in. Mental manipulation is an important part of the control I fear.

Although new to this, my desires aren't new to me and its taken a failed marriage to come to terms with who i am and what i need. And this is the point i am now at.


This is where i should sell myself a bit, so here goes. I can't offer any experience of submitting, but take this seriously and I am committed to making this work. I am no supermodel but think i am quite pretty with a nice enough figure. Hopefully you won't find me loud and brash but caring and courteous. I am sure i have lots of flaws and faults but i am sure you can shape me into a passable slave.

What excites me: Bondage, spanking, collars, being put in my place, humiliation, confident experienced Masters.

What doesn't excite me: someone wanting to beat me black and blue, anything that will leave permanent marks, becoming pregnant, one night stands.