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Let's Roleplay..... I'll be Burger King and you be McDonald's. I'll have it My Way and you'll be Lovin It....... For those who don't understand what a D/s relationship is comprised of then the above analogy should tell you all you need to know. Since I'm back in NYC, there are some updates that are necessary. First, under no circumstances will I waste time with anyone who won't talk on the phone. There seems to be a large influx of scammers from another country pretending to be American girls. Second, if you claim to live in the NYC area then you qill meet me in a public place soon after talking with me. Third, under no circumstances am I interested in talking online until you feel comfortable. My time is too valuable to waste it on someone who has no intentention of following through. Talk is just talk and has zero value. Anyone who is serious is ready to move forward. Cowards and fakes can keep pretending to be looking for a relationship. Fourth, I am not attached to NYC but I am here. I have been made aware if domestic partnership agreements. I am interested in this. Fifth, anyone who is after someone who is after someone successful only valuea money and what you can get. I have more than you do and I have no intention of blowing it on you. If you can prove yourself, I have no issue relocating you. Six, If your profile says willing to relocate then be fucking willing to relocate sooner rather than later. Seven, I am the center of your existence, not just your Universe. Eight, I have been ready for quite some time and I act not out of fear or insecurity but because someone equally ready wants me to find them and doesn't want to keep being disapointed . Nine, you will not use birth control with me, ever. I will cum inside you where I choose. Ten, stop demanding respect when none is given. You are never in control and you should not be positioning yourself for control. If you want love, admiration, and respect then give it first, otherwise stop making such nonsensical demands. For a woman to be truly desired, she must give up her masculine ways and surrender as those women who understand their place in a man's life and find comfort by deferring to him in all ways. Women who feel the need to be difficult, or the need to exhibit masculine traits, will always be left behind in their confusion and misery. It is a misunderstanding that a dominant male wants a challenge. The dominant male, confident in his being, does not chase. A woman will respond in subtle ways to show her interest. Those who are immature will lash out at a man's advances and push him away. These girls are worthless to a man. It is the one who does not run, does not hide, and does not put up walls that will bring out the best in a man. You have been informed....UrPlace2Belong.
To be completely woman, you need a Master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him, it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long.


- Marlene Dietrich -


� � � Hello ladies,

I am open to meeting someone sincere and easy to get along with.� Your desire to please would be a welcome change.� I work hard and I need someone who understands this. My photos are edited for a reason.� My privacy should be respected.� I have these photos as well as others that are un edited which I will share if I believe you are genuine.
Please be serious and emotionally available.� Let's see what this site brings.�

You should be able to relocate now, not months from now. Be able to travel to visit or host.� I am more than capable�of reimbursement �of your travel cost but I will not send you money or buy you a ticket.� Been there, done that, and remain 100 percent burned.� If you don't have enough money for a bus ticket then I suggest you borrow or work for it.��If you are firmly established, I may be able to relocate to you but you would have to be serious about being owned. Being able and willing to relocate means exactly that. I am not here to talk with those who aren't ready to make the necessary changes in their life. This site is notorious for fakes and scamming. Let's not start off on the wrong foot. I am willing to exchange phone numbers and verify by text and talk along with current pics. You must be willing to do the same. � I am simply a dominant male who is multifaceted, intelligent, down to earth, motivated to make positive changes in my life and I simply will not allow anyone negative or wishy washy to be part of my life.� I only want to focus on the positive that can come from such a relationship dynamic.� This is not about lifestyle fetish for me.� You would have to experience who and what I am to make the determination for yourself. � I am outgoing but I also like my alone time.� I have professional aspirations and enjoy my freedom from melodrama and the continuous exposure to the insanity and unnecessary violence going on around us.� For those who are not concerned with where we are headed, I simply don't understand you.� For those of you who simply slave for a wage just to pay your bills, I can not relate.� There has to be more to life than a simple existence. � You must have clear and recent photos and if you are the first to contact me, let me know what you offer and not just what you demand.� � A bit more about who I am presently.� I am naturally dominant which means I am�a leader by nature.� I will bring out your submissive nature.� I require obedience, a gentle presence, and the flexibility to "bend".� You should be naturally submissive and not playing a game reserved for the bedroom.� I have no desire to argue.� My word is simply law and I expect to be obeyed. � I am not concerned with your self perception of whether you are submissive or slave.� What matters is who and how you are with me.� I have had the strongest of women desire to be at my feet because they too constantly test to see who will not bow down like a lap dog and lick their heels.� � If you are overweight then you will be required to lose the excess.� It's that simple.� I simply don't believe in modern feminism and neither should you.� All women with a sense of intelligence know that they need a man and are not afraid to be a woman around that man.� � I will update as we go..................
8/29/2015 6:09:16 AM
Believe me when I say that whatever I write is not in anger. My writing style is direct which offends some. I personally don't care if I offend you. With that being said, allow me to update once again I find myself halfway across the country from where I was living for more than two years. I have been talking with a few women and even traveled to be with one. I have proven numerous times that I am willing to do what is necessary. I have on occasion relocated others to me. Here is the dilemma. The latest person from here who couldn't wait for me to come get her has disappeared. I expected as much which is why I have no feeling about the matter other than the waste of my precious time that could have been used on other pursuits. When you spend time with anyone, it is your time that is lost forever. Long phone calls, long periods of text messaging, etc. all adds up. Multiply this by the number of people you are getting to know and it adds up. I prove I am real every time. I give my name so you can conduct a google search. I give my phine number. I will meet in person. I will talk to whomever you want me to and I will allow anyone who is genuine the opportunity to talk to people I know. What exactly are you willing to do? The answer so far is not a god damn thing to put my mind at ease. If you are not serious then stop looking for a relationship. If you are not in America, then stop pretending that you are. If you have a dick, stop advertising yourself as a female. Life would be so much simpler and fulfilling if you just quit your bullshit and make a site like this worth visiting. The same women year after year are still claiming they either can't find someone real or declaring men are pigs is past the point of getting old. Be expected to prove your identity and don't expect me to entertain your notion that we are going to talk for a long time. The time for conversation is over. Back in the day we would say "put your money where your mouth is" or "put up or shut up".
8/26/2015 9:41:51 AM
Is it possible to be amazed and disgusted at the same time?  The sheer number of fat women on this site who are crying because no one wants them is getting out of control.  What amazes me is that they believe men in general find them desirable because they think they are beautiful.  They read a book that told them they were beautiful.  They saw a movie or a TV show where a fat person was sought after, or they heard that a plus sized model got a contract so all fat women should be viewed as a goddess.  What a fucking joke.

Criticize me all you want.  Fat people are not happy people in general, nor are they healthy people.  Who you are on the outside is a reflection of who you are on the inside.  No one can eat healthy and be fat.  No one can be active and be fat.  Being fat comes from unhealthy eating, lack of movement, over eating, eating junk, low self esteem, and an I don't give a fuck what people think mentality.

When you are attempting to attract a mate, especially a visual male, you will be used, ridiculed, abandoned, etc. because you are not a beautiful person as you would have everyone believe.  You are only fooling yourself because no one else is buying into your fantasy.  This is why you are alone.  This is why you cry at night.  This is why no one wants to hold you or kiss you or have sex with you.  Either get over it or do something about it.  Whatever you do, stop shoving it down everyone else's throat going on about how beautiful you are and that you shouldn't have to change for anyone, because, yes you do. 
8/15/2015 1:00:52 PM
I was just reading someone's profile and of course they are fake....but it prompted me to make a new journal entry.

The concept of going all in has always worked for me.  Think of it as total immersion or having faith.  People tend to over analyze and then are gripped by analysis paralysis.  

People tend to be intimidated by me because I make command decisions based on some information and then whether or not it feels right for me.  This has never failed me.

Those who are unhappy usually tend to be over analytical.  They can not act outside of their own confinement and thought process.  This is not my problem.  I can not be with someone who is not willing to take that leap of faith.

When someone consistently refers to their personal obstacle or fear, this simply means they have not experienced life.  They have not grown and they will not grow as a person.  Fakes, flakes and those who want to pretend will always fall into this category.

Experience is the spice of life.  Living in fear is the piss on your ice cream.  Living and fear simply do not go together.  I am judged because I go after what I want and yet women say all the time that they want a man who knows what he wants.

This takes me back to something I have always said which was "never believe what  a woman tells you because she does not know herself".

I also live by the following words, "what you do speaks so loudly that I can't hear what you're saying".

5/1/2015 9:34:23 PM
My self esteem won't allow me to be with someone like you
5/1/2015 9:30:37 PM
A new year and I see nothing has changed. The same fat and/or ugly women still holding out for their dream guy while claiming they have nothing about them needing to be changed. We have all the new scammers out of north carolina and the ones who can't match a fake photo to their listed height, weight and ethnicity. I have spoken and met with nothing but liars, scammers, amateur porn actresses and hookers. I didn't mention neurotic because that seems to be the norm and not worth mentioning. I'm not here to meet anyone. This site sucks, you suck, and if you were actually any good, I would let you blow me, but it seems that women aren't into that anymore.