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Male Dominant, 37, Knoxville, Tennessee
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Male Dominant, 37
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About urminesoon
I have wandered through collarme to see who is here and why they are here. I wanted to get a sense of what people are looking for and I have found it lacking.
My sense is, the DS relationship is not something that happens right away. It takes time, it takes trust and it takes a willingness to stretch oneself beyond what one thinks they can do... in order to make it work. This dynamic is true for both the woman that l look for and myself. I do not demand more from my sub than I do from myself. Know that. and if you do not know that, then you are not what i am looking for.
Really, this kind of relationship does not happen right away. I reiterate that point only because it is too often assumed that if a self declared 'dom' commands a girl who he just met... to do this, that or the other, he expects that she will. Is this type of person for real? I will admit that I have not been in the lifestyle for years; I am learning. I am a laid back guy who feels an incredibly dominant yearning wanting to come out. But I am learning. But I do have a conviction or two, if only that!
The only good relationship is the kind of relationship that evolves over time. Whether a D's relationship or a totally vanilla one, it is not going to happen in an instant. It just can't.
My concern though does not simply relate to the male doms. What about the women? My worry? My concern is that too often they are just looking to get spanked and sent on there way. For some, this lifestyle is serious. for most it is not. for me it is. is it for you?
I am a good looking guy who is typically quite laid back but who is seeking a very submissive woman. be intelligent, be open minded... but be very submissive. and know what that means. If you have questions, ask.
If you are interested, let me know. i have no interest approaching you.
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