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Female Dominant, 25
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Male Submissive, 29, Lancaster, Pennsylvania
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About urloyalslave12
**For those who have talked to me and those who haven't I am currently just looking for friends only at this point. I just really don't have the time right now with how busy my vanilla world is to start a relationship or such. Those who have talked to me know what opportunity has presented itself to me and I am going to take it at this point because it is best for me to do so.**
revising my post a little bit about who i am. i am willing to talk to anyone from anywhere but the chances of me moving there or coming out to see you very often is silm. i have a very vanilla life which includes work and school. my family means the world to me and i travel to SE Ohio about 4-5 times a year to visit them.
i am a masochist but also like the gentle cuddling type as well. i label myself as being loyal because i am. for the right person, i will go to the depths of the earth for. i will do a lot of things for the right person. i do not have kids but if you do please understand this- i will never ever ever ever make you choose between them or me. family is a very important thing for me and i honor and respect the fact that you have kids and you should choosse your kids over them before choosing our relationship. there are times i can be a royal bitch and other times i can be very loving and playful. sometimes i will talk with you and other times i wont. i am a very busy person but i make time for people i care and want to know more about.
i know what i want and im not afraid to go after it but i also know when it is best to move on and know when it just isn't the right match. there are things that i do that you might not agree with or like. one is being i am not a stick figure nor have i ever been. i am what some call a BBW and some like that some dont but whatever. i am willing to try a lot of things but there are things that are just not going to happen with me and that is not negotiable
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doing the work thing tonight then who knows got oj and rum sooooooooooooo |
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back from rochester... back to work work work and play hopefully at some point :) |
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Today I have learned a bunch of different things. That I hate the ones who have the notion that just because you are a slave or a submissive means that you are willing to drop the stuff in your life and start serving them. Yes, this is ideal in a fantasy world but people we live in a vanilla society who doesn't accept our lifestyle. I believe that you can live this lifestyle 24/7 if you never leave your house or are out in the middle of nowhere.
In being in this lifestyle off and on I realized that I know what I enjoy and what I hate. I know where I am willing to go and not willing to go. I know what I do not want out of this. I say there is a fine line between being a pain slut and being abused. There is that line and once you cross that line with someone there is no way of going back.
A wise person told me that you just have to jump and have the faith and trust that someone will catch you. I am slowly learning to jump and not be afraid of jumping again. The person who said this thank you for allowing me the time and your time to get back into the lifestyle the right way. |
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