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| Ok, let's get the NOT's out of the way. Smoking, drinking, drugs, diseases. I don't do or have them, you be likewise.
I'm not "into" pain for my own pleasure, but, if you need to deliver some, I can take some, just don't try to be Mme.Torquemada at the height of the Spanish inquisition. Needles/blades and burning/branding are flat out. I'm strictly hetero, period, end-of-discussion.
OK, now we've gotten THAT out of the way.
Orally fixated sub male seeking dominant woman who enjoys receiving attentions of this nature, amongst other things. I adore bbw's . Amongst my oral fixations are "nectar-drinking", but we don't do the "poo". Just about anything else legal is open, as long as you are enjoying yourself, I am happy.
I am intelligent, literate, and communicative, with a dry, droll, sarcastic sense of humor. I know my way around a laundry-room and kitchen, and basic domestic repairs are within my capability. I am fully employed, and intend to stay that way. I'm pretty capable at massage, both theraputic and sensual. I have a fair degree of skill with things digital.
LTR is ultimately sought. With that in mind, please DON'T bother if you're more than 10 years younger than I am, commonality of experience is increasingly difficult/unlikely beyond that. I don't have an upper limit.
Photo available upon request. I understand privacy/discretion.
I figure that if you've read all the way thru this profile, in it's rather UN-submissive tone and presentation, (I don't DO "wimp") then you're serious, as am I. Dominants weed out those who won't work with/for THEM, a sub is a fool if they don't do likewise. Ultimately, two people have to approach each other as equals, THEN establish their relationship structure, if there is to be a relationship beyond play-partners, and even play-partners should start there. I have seen numerous profiles saying that they wanted an "Alpha-male sub". I see myself as being of that type. I value mysef, if I didn't, then what would be the value OF my submission? The decision is yours.
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For one, the end has come mercifully quick. She who had the Uterine cancer has passed. She went in the company of friends, and made a better passing than many make of their lives, showing the same grace and dignity and gentility as she always has. The world is short one wonderful person. I would have to say that we most-mourn for ourselves, for the missing of that person who is no longer with us in this world. I must remember to give thanks for having known her, and that her pain is ended and that she is with family and friends who have gone before.
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In and out to check for mail is about the extent of my brief and sporadic interludes here. A cautionary comment: There's something occaisionally toxic in dealing with one who is terminal, especially if/when they, while superficially dealing with the realities of the situation, are taking an "Egyptian Acquatic Vacation", complete with a mixed-gas saturation diving excoursion. In other words, they get DEEP into de Nile. Sometimes you may find yourself wanting to say "OK, so you're dieing, we ALL are, you're just doing it sooner, so you're nothing special!". Some handle it with grace and dignity, honestly going thru the stages of grieving that one naturally does, others not so well. They become very psychologically brittle and difficult to deal with. All you can do is hang in there and still be there when that brittle armor shatters into a million pieces, and their immersion-excursion ends suddenly.
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This is a venting. I've not been on in a while, and haven't had the energy to be. I found out a few weeks ago that a frind of mine had been diagnosed with a brain cancer. Inoperable, stage-4. I wrap my mind around that, and do my best to treat her like a healthy normal person as much as possible, save when symptoms make it obvious. I was getting accustomed to the innevitabilities involved, and a few days ago find out that another dear lady I know has been diagnosed with stage-4 cervical/uterine cancer. I won't have any energy or interest in much of anything outside of the daily living and dealing with these facts for quite a while. they say practice makes things easier, to which I say bullshit! I had all the practice I needed a few years ago when a dear friend essentially died in my arms. She had moved in with me after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, and becoming unable to work. She was having difficulty breathing, so i was readying to take her to the doc, stepped away to go get my keys, came back a scant 10 seconds later, and she was slumped-over. I tried CPR, but pulmonary edema makes that a fools erand. I called 911, they got there within 3 minutes, did everything possible, but.....
Cherish your friends while you may, nothing is eternal, certainly not us mortals. |
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Sometimes I really have to chuckle. First, thank you to all the lovely ladies who show class and do not feel the need to disport themselves like pinup models in a -mag whilst in their narratives and journal entries decrying those males looking for mastrubatory inspiration. I realize that some of it is female-to-female competition, the "I'm a better-looking domme' than YOU are" thing. How totally high-school! A face-shot and/or a fully-clothed (and yes, a leather corset counts theras) full figure shot are perfectly fine, and, if it is as you say, NOT all about kink and sex, then that is what we would be seeing 99% of the time anyway. What you advertize for is what you will get, so choose your desired customer-base carefully. |
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There are times I think I should get certified as a Psycho-Proctologist, becauae there are definitely some folk in here that need a high colonic reality enema. I was reading profiles at random, as I oft do, and came across one from some domme' claiming to be a "Real vampire". Hello?? When last I checked, the only REAL vampires were the bat of that name, resident in South America. I'm sorry, but placing a set of dental appliances on one's upper eye-teeth, and red contacts on one's eyes may look really cool and impressive, but it doesn't impart, in any way, shape, or form, the abilities attributed in literature to "Vampires". Someone got a bit too deep into the vampire-game, and hasn't managed to extract themselves. The laughable, yet sad, part of all this is that they seem to genuinely believe what they're saying about themselves, and expect others to do so as well. |
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One reads, and, to put it gently, becomes duly unimpressed. After reading scores of profiles, many of which rant and rail about the writer's superiority, and berate submisives, I am forced to ask where they even think to get off if they cannot make proper use of tense, case, punctuation, and spelling. Did literacy levels in society take a drastic drop? Is a Fourth-grade level ability to use English suddenly sufficient in the world at large? I'm not talking about the Twenty-somethings, I've already written them off, I'm talking about those of or near my own age, the forty-plus group. If you want to appear superior to someone, you need to at LEAST be able to communicate with them, in both written and spoken form, in proper English.
Your profile is your calling-card, your letter of introduction, and your resume' all in one. Would you attempt to apply for employment with something that declared to the world that you were not fully literate? Then don't post herein with any less attention to detail.
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| Age: 29 |
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