Collarspace.com

Yes, I do have photos but due to my career, social network I cannot post but will forward one upon your request.

I AM divorced, single and available. Am a man who discovered my submissive side at 18, explored and then happily without regret was married in a vanilla relationship for 15 years.

Have been divorced 7 years...have done the munch, large public parties, one relationship where as she took on the Female Dominant role as a natural...have been a houseboy in my early twenties and now.....

Have a good career, merging another career, enjoy many outside interests and I think I'm a good catch.

I'm looking for a friend at first and if things click, chemistry or what life brings...then that is what will happen.

I started dating again around September which is why I hadn't been active but being back in the water is not exactly what I'd like. Oh, well.

As far as my ideal relationship goes....friendship first, all the good qualities and skills of making a relationship work for the long term....there must be the Fem dom bond running through the relationship.

Actually the vanilla world has proven to much more open to my submissive side than looking into this venue but I'm lightly giving it a try here.

Have been to folsom several times, Slick events, classes, read books, played and do have friends within the community and also in my vanilla world who know what I like...not to the extent as the strap on but I do love a woman with a strap on holding my hips...

Take a look at me, ask for a photo and yes...let me answer your questions and share what I'm about to you.

Good luck in your search too...

submissively,
D

1/5/2008 9:50:33 AM

Why am I submissive? Many things derive from our childhood years and I attribute my inner self to watching my parents and grandparents interact.

So...I just feel the Woman wears the pants in many areas yet there is balance, respect and communication.

I enjoy giving in a relationship or friendship. Ok, I do like being bossed around a bit...I just purrr like a cat...shake my tail and go do the dishes, errands, cook or kneel and give you a foot massage when you walk in the door from work. A glass of wine in your hand. Yes, I do have a career too.

Just my thoughts for the day.

1/4/2008 1:49:47 PM

The new year is upon us....am going to attend a few munches and join the local place in Santa Clara.

If your still looking.....for a friend, playmate or potential long term relationship....I'm an excellent prospect.

Draft and train me...I do come with moderate training papers already.

All the success in 2008 for you in relationships, friendships and business.

10/25/2007 8:28:32 AM

I am looking for that relationship which has a outward vanilla appearance yet, you rule the castle.

Yes, I have good looks, personality and everything in my life is very good.

If your really a Woman who connects by dominating her man at some level for really a relationship is based on...
trust
friendship
compromise
love
care
skills to go the distance

I believe I'm a great catch without the ego.

Enjoy each day as it's your last. Always call one of your friends and give them a compliment. Avoid conflict because it's usually not about you..it's about them. Hug your family member each day no matter what because it might be the last.

This is a small peak into who I am.


10/25/2007 8:22:11 AM
Good morning. My warmest thoughts and prayers go out to the people who lost their homes in Los Angeles.
8/15/2007 3:37:38 PM
I'm planning a trip to Burning Man. Have never been but do have two friends who are attending so...I have the time off and if your going to attend, please email me.

Also, I'll be attending another Folsom Street Fair in September...birthday weekend.

QUESTION....or should I state, it is my opinion and I would like to hear this. I strongly believe that most of us men are submissive and it is showing in our government, business and society. Your thoughts?

Enjoying the summer and my time off.
KittensKlaws
 
 Age: 18
 Ridgeland, Mississippi