URDesiredPain

I am a experienced, normal looking and acting dominate male in north central Indiana, with an on going and thriving business in Chicago. I have recently taken a very special lady. We'd love to find friends. She is extremely bi and in time we'll be looking for ladies to join her and perhaps I. Of course all under my guidance.

In my 10 plus years of learning more of myself I have met some interesting and amazing people. I seek friends, not play partners. For me this is not play, it is real, who I am. If someone comes along that is strong, yet feminine. Intelligent and has a sense of humor to match then more could always develope.

I have a sadistic side that comes out in time with trust and communication. Otherwise I am a normal man, excepted in public life with a real zeal for life. I love to travel and hope to retire in the Carribean.

What I ask of the people I talk to is that they are real, honest and know who they are. I don't want you to drop your panties anytime soon, if ever. If I can't get into your mind that mean nothing to me anyway.

Though I am not a perfect "speciman" I am in decent shape and expect any woman that I would consider to be more than a friend to me to be healthy also.

I am not as interested in your past experience as I am in your attitude. Don't ask me to tell you how I punish, it really doesn't matter until I know you anyway. I don't care what your into for friendship, if we connect, we'll enjoy all we do together.