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	About urChattel Some are born to command, i was born to obey. I have known most of my life my purpose was to serve, to obey. For the first 25 years of my life I believed I was heterosexual with submissive and masochistic tendencies and a need to be dominated by a lady. It was my desire, my purpose, to live my life for her pleasures. To do all that was in my power to help her obtain the a life of happiness and pleasure. To allow her, encourage her to use me, and yes, even abuse me in any manner to achieve this goal. For the first thirty years with all of my serious girlfriends I shared these needs and desires with. All had no prior experience with female domination, but most I’m happy to say enjoyed this side of me and were usually more then happy to ‘play’. Up until this time, my goal was to find a Lady to marry myself into 24/7 slavery to my wife with a monogamous marriage. I also had been cheated on by most and loathed it when I caught/realized it had happened. I let their infidelity ruin our relationship. At 28 I began to realize to become a lady’s slave husband, I would have to learn to accept her infidelities. After all, becoming her slave meant giving her the power and control to set the roles and the rules, and meant I had only to abide by them. To relinquish all power to her also meant relinquishing my need for fidelity and monogamy, should it be her desire. But for me it meant more. It opened doors. Knowing she could have lovers also meant I may be required to serve them as well. It meant she could for whatever reason, lend me to others. Females, couples or males. It meant prior self imposed boundaries, limits were not conducive to being a slave. For me it meant truly experiencing slavery could occur only when exceeding these boundaries and limits. That is not to say I have no hard limits, I do. To begin with nothing illegal. While I am not married, I do have a child and am responsible for my child. Unfortunately this greatly restricts my becoming what I was born to be. To me, being your slave all boils down to my enjoyment of being used and abused, to suit your desires and wants. To make your life better, at the expense of my own. It likely will encompass practical areas of servitude, housework, yard work, and any other forms of labor that would benefit you. It will likely involve punishment and discipline when i do not meet the high standards you require of me. It may involve my humiliation and or degradation, ensuring we all remember my place. Right now, while I would prefer more, I would welcome friends and online friends to discuss and explore possibilities. urChattel your • possessive determiner 1 belonging to or associated with the person or people that the speaker is addressing. 2 belonging to or associated with any person in general. chattel /chatt’l/ • noun a personal possession.

Over the years i have learned to truly appreciate and love all People whom have either known from an early age, or have come to realize they were entitled to using and abusing others like myself, for their own life's journey. To make their life richer, more enjoyable, more pleasurable, more complete by extracting from those of us willing and eager to give of ourselves to aid in their journey.

i do not speak here of financial domination, but rather of service oriented domination, where the services can be any service that pleases the dominant. Laundry, washing dishes, house cleaning, yard work, handy man services, car washing, manicures and pedicures, butler and or maid services are some of the more common. These services please the dominants by freeing up the dominants time to pursue other activities more enjoyable to the dominants.

Some other services may be more intimate, i.e. by providing massages, helping bathe the dominants, and/or providing sexual stimulation/gratification as desired by the dominant in any manner which pleases them. Specifically in my case, whereas i acknowledge some dominants do seek a relationship where a slaves penis is used in a capacity which often also results in the male slave's sexual gratification, it is not what i seek. Being denied my own gratification is part of me being what i am.

i digress. Finally there is another conglomeration of services, often specific to individual types dominants. For the 'sadist', the service could be whipping boy/pain toy. For the 'Humilator' and 'Humilatrix' it may be enjoyable to use the slave for humiliation activities. Or they may require a pet, perhaps an animal such as a pony. In some cases they may desire the service of their personal 'slut'. From one dominant to another these services may vary and in fact may even be unique to each dominant but again all of these, and more are services of which this slave is capable of providing.

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i thought I'd take a minute and explain my sexual preference. Initially i had selected straight because that's how i see myself. i'm not physically or sexually attracted to men as I am to women.

i did not mean to say i am not sexually attracted to men in any way,? i will admit having an attraction to all dominants and superiors, including males. i find myself attracted to, drawn to all dominants, regardless of their gender.

i will submit to and serve dominant men as they desire. And yes, if it also means sexually i will do my best to comply and please.?

In my mind, by submitting to a dominant male, with or without a dominant female, helps reinforce in my own mind my place as a slave.

As i have been taught, People have preferences and choices, whereas slaves have capabilities and compliance.

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