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About untamedshysub

The world owes us nothing. We come into it and leave it with nothing. What we do between the two is what makes a life.


I am a submissive have been all my life. From time to time I try to deny or fight who I am but it seldom works or last very long.

I accept myself for me. nice to meet you.

a friend sent this to me recently. I thought it was worth sharing.

 

Bill of No Rights 12/08/1997  (enjoy)

 

The Bill of No Rights
Courtesy of Lewis W. Napper

We, the sensible of the United States, in an attempt to help everyone get along, restore some semblance of justice, avoid any more riots, keep our nation safe, promote positive behavior and secure the blessings of debt-free liberty to ourselves and our great-great-great grandchildren, hereby try one more time to ordain and establish some common sense guidelines for the terminally whiny, guilt-ridden delusional, and other liberal, commie, pinko bedwetters. We hold these truths to be self-evident, that a whole lot of people were confused by the Bill of Rights and are so dim that they require a Bill of No Rights.

ARTICLE I

You do not have the right to a new car, big-screen color TV or any other form of wealth. More power to you if you can legally acquire them, but no one is guaranteeing anything.

ARTICLE II

You do not have the right to never be offended. This country is based on freedom, and that means freedom for everyone -- not just you! You may leave the room, turn the channel, express a different opinion, etc., but the world is full of idiots, and probably always will be.

ARTICLE III

You do not have the right to be free from harm. If you stick a screwdriver in your eye, learn to be more careful, do not expect the tool manufacturer to make you and all of your relatives independently wealthy.

ARTICLE IV

You do not have the right to free food and housing. Americans are the most charitable people to be found, and will gladly help anyone in need, but we are quickly growing weary of subsidizing generation after generation of professional couch potatoes who achieve nothing more than the creation of another generation of professional couch potatoes.

ARTICLE V

You do not have the right to free health care. That would be nice, but from the looks of public housing, we're just not interested in public health care.

ARTICLE VI

You do not have the right to physically harm other people. If you kidnap, rape, intentionally maim or kill someone, don't be surprised if the rest of us get together and kill you.

ARTICLE VII

You do not have the right to the possessions of others. If you rob, cheat, or coerce away the goods or services of other citizens, don't be surprised if the rest of us get together and lock you away in a place where you still won't have the right to a big-screen color TV or a life of leisure.

ARTICLE VIII

You do not have the right to demand that our children risk their lives in foreign wars to soothe your aching conscience. We hate oppressive governments and won't lift a finger to stop you from going to fight if you'd like. However, we do not enjoy parenting the entire world and do not want to spend so much of our time battling each and every little tyrant with a military uniform and a funny hat.

ARTICLE IX

You do not have the right to a job. All of us sure want you to have one, and will gladly help you along in hard times, but we expect you to take advantage of the opportunities in education and vocational training laid before you to make yourself useful.

ARTICLE X

You do not have the right to happiness. Being an American means that you have the right to pursue happiness -- which, by the way, is a lot easier if you are unencumbered by an overabundance of idiotic laws created by those around you who were confused by the Bill of Rights. Copyright - Lewis W. Napper. All Rights Reserved
Courtesy : Bob Aldrich


One of the questions men ask a lot is how long have you been in the lifestyle? what exactly does that mean?

 

My lifestyle includes many things working , going to school, being a mom to my adult children, working out, reading, exercising and I am a submissive.

 

all of these parts of me encompass my lifestyle. For me there was no beginning nor will there be an end to being a submissive its a part of who I am.

I have taken some time and given this some thought I learned of D/s from a group of friends I met in a yahoo room called old Guard.  There were several things about them that captured my attention. 1) the room was not on the adult side it was in the traditional rooms.2) The people were respectful and talked to each other.3) the roles were clearly defined and yes ma'am , no sir was automatic.

 

They were real time and this was just where they met to socialize because they lived all over the country.

 

When I got up the nerve to speak I asked a lot of questions and the answers were logical and well thought out. I learned the difference between a D/s relationship and what BDSM really is.

 

I believe because my foundation was based on knowledge and I have not forgotten what they taught me I have a difficult time meeting Dominant men.

 

The most important lesson I learned is a Dom who is interested in me , will do the foundation work and take time to know me. There are no short cuts.

 

 

Bondage-The act of physically restraining someone. I enjoy being in bondage it can be used in play or part as a sex act.

Discipline- used to correct behavior. It can either be physical as a spanking , or emotional  depending on the needs of the sub which is known by her Master.

 

Sadomasochism-one who enjoys inflicting pain on another its all about power.


masochist- One who enjoys the attentions of the sadist.

 

Submissive- one who is subservient by choice to the Dom. These concessions are discussed before and the rules are put into place for the protection of both parties.

 

Dominant- One who controls the submissive in the relationship.

 

within my understanding of what D/s  and BDSM are they are two separate entities and can be combined or stand alone.

 

It is not about sex it is about power and control. Sex is merely a tool to be used to that end.

 

Unless you understand the fundamental basics of a D/s relationship and you contact me I will not respond.

 

This is something you cannot fake. This is my life and I do not hand it over easily to anyone. 

 

As  grateful slave says in slave craft: "protect the property" meaning I am responsible for me until I give that right up to another.

 

 

If you are married, attached, seeking poly or casual play partner we have nothing in common.

 

 

I found a wonderful websites as I find interesting ones I will post them for others to visit they are full of information. the second one has the archives from castle realm.

 

http://www.takeninhand.com/

 

 

http://kinktoychest.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=63&Itemid=63

 

I love this:

 

An Obituary printed in the London Times.....Absolutely Brilliant !!

Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was, since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as:

            - Knowing when to come in out of the rain;

            - Why the early bird gets the worm;

            - Life isn't always fair;

            - and maybe it was my fault.

            

            Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don't spend more than you can earn) and reliable strategies (adults, not children, are in charge).

             

            His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.

             

            Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job that they themselves had failed to do in disciplining their unruly children.

             

            It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer sun lotion or an aspirin to a student; but could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.

             

            Common Sense lost the will to live as the churches became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims.

             

            Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you for assault.

             

            Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.

             

            Common Sense was preceded in death, by his parents, Truth and Trust, by his wife, Discretion, by his daughter, Responsibility, and by his son, Reason.

            

            He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers;

            I Know My Rights

            I Want It Now

            Someone Else Is To Blame

            I'm A Victim

            

            Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone. If you still remember him, pass this on. If not, join the majority and do nothing.

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